Oh, it's just my ex.
How do you guys feel about your significant other, partner, or bf/gf having friendships with their ex's? Or how about them having phone calls, texts, or Facebook communication without you knowing (especially if they've sent messages in the past saying how they want your bf/gf in the bed once more, not even having to do anything but lay there)?
If it's just pure friendship, then it's okay but if there's some connivance going on then i'd want to punch the both of them so bad
How would you know what it exactly is if it wasn't brought up in the beginning to begin with? You're not there while he/she is on the phone with their ex so you'll never know. The trust has already been broken because he/she didn't tell you they were talking to s/him in all honesty.Originally Posted by kiwi01
If it's just pure friendship, then it's okay but if there's some connivance going on then i'd want to punch the both of them so bad
umm I don't see a problem in this... i do see a problem in this thread though, its kinda stupid.
It doesn't really both me to be honest. I am not going to constantly worry that he has contact with his ex's (whether it is through FB, text, talking on the phone, etc), because I think that would be weighing on my mind all the time and it wouldn't be too good for the relationship - if you think something between them may go further, you can only talk to them about it. Some can be messy, others have worked out well, guess it depends on the partner and the ex when it comes down to it. Really, there needs to be trust in a relationship, if there isn't, your relationship is going to go down hill, and quickly.
Last edited by Chicksta; 09-12-2011 at 06:39 AM.
I get what you mean.. Like, there'd be suspicions that they are talking about you behind your back. But I trust my gf enough not to do anything like thaaaat.
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