My Girlfriend is changing...

[Unknown Soldier]

Best advice possible - don't take advise from people on Chat Avenue. That will only lead to confusion for you.

Don't assume she is cheating but if you do - ask her straight up.

[twinkle toez]

yow listen up that girl is cheating she is 100% cheating...all of a sudden she don't wanna lay down beside you and all that...just get a new girl simple........

I like this answer .

[emo zaga]

Best advice possible - don't take advise from people on Chat Avenue. That will only lead to confusion for you.

Don't assume she is cheating but if you do - ask her straight up.

and you think she ganna tell him the true..any girl your with and you ask them ( are you cheating ) they ganna say no even when they are

I like this answer .

ikr............thanks

[Hell's Little Angel]

Dump the bitch before she dumps you,
move on to something better.

[Teddy_Picker]

she's pregnant

[awkward]

you guys must watch a lot of Maury or something. I was looking for actual advice on dealing with changes, instead most of the replies are "SHE CHEATIN! SHE PREGNANT! SHE A HO! SHE WAS AT MY HOUSE LAS NIGHT!" unhelpful. Its a serious relationship, we still love each other, my trust was hurt and I hope now she will tell me stuff instead of trying to protect my feelings or avoiding confrontation, but we are trying to make it work. Don't jump to conclusions was the best answer I got from this thread.

Also, I hadn't realized that this was some kind of teen site? (is it?) I'm 30 she's 28, we aren't in high school.

[12valve]

When my girlfriend is changing I usually watch.

[awkward]

When my girlfriend is changing I usually watch.

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[4EverBlazen]

First of all, I think I'd try as much as possible to get her to stop smoking the pot. It's not good for her physically, mentally or emotionally. She might be going through some sort of emotional breakdown, maybe from what happened with her roommate or maybe even something you have no idea about so I'd let her know that I'm there, if she wants to talk or anything. Or maybe ask her friends.

But beyond that I'm not sure there's much else you can do for her. The rest, she's pretty much going to have to figure out on her own. I mean, all you can do is offer help, you cant force her to take it. It's a very sketchy situation and probably wouldnt be easy.

Also ask her what's going on, in a totally non-judgemental way, like you actually care to know.. You might find out something...
Hopes this helps... Good luck with your girl