Cheating or not?
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i am in a big arguement with someone on skype about cheating!
He never cheated (he says) but.....he told me that he cheated once, as revenge.
because his girlfriend cheated too.
And he says that isnt that bad?
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I say its just as bad as she did.....
what do u guys think about it?
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I agree with you. If the only way he can deal with her infidelity is to do the same thing he is just as bad as her. Clearly there were more issues there that needed to be addressed.
05/04/13
Originally Posted by Eysallanu
I think what he did was wrong. Sometimes, revenge isn't the only option. if you do the same mistakes as others do, then what would be the difference between you and others !?!?!
"An eye for an eye makes the world blind"
Last edited by FRazier; 02-29-2012 at 10:31 AM.
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Cheating is cheating is cheating is cheating
If a guy were cheat on me...I'd kick him in the dick and leave his ass! There are PLENTY of fish in the sea [:
Cheating on a cheater just makes one a cheater.
Cheaters never win...
Revenge is NEVER the key in a relationship!!!! If someone cheats, going out and cheating back is the worst thing you can possibly do. It basically validates that the relationship meant nothing to both parties involved. If he didn't feel that it was something they could work through then he should have just ended the relationship. Usually, not always, when someone cheats its because they are missing something in their relationship...sometimes its because they aren't happy, or they are bored, or they really don't want to be in the relationship anyway....Does not make it right however. IN either case. but yeah...if she cheats on him, then he turns around and cheats on her...(or however it goes) I'd say pretty much the relationship is done...If they can work it out..good for them...but remember, often times if they cheat once...they will again....good luck!
I disagree in that he is "just as bad as her." He certainly isn't a saint, but one could almost condone his cheating (key word being almost). An eye for an eye is and has been a very popular model and while I think he should just move on/break up with the girl for initially cheating, I can't help but to sympathize. I'll compare it to murder. There are three degrees of murder where 1st degree murder is the greater crime, followed by the 2nd degree, and lastly the 3rd degree. His woman committed a "1st degree infidelity" while his is probably a "2nd or 3rd degree infidelity".
See above...I think what he did was wrong. Sometimes, revenge isn't the only option. if you do the same mistakes as others do, then what would be the difference between you and others !?!?!
"An eye for an eye makes the world blind"
Last edited by Luka; 03-07-2012 at 07:14 AM. Reason: Merged posts
Two wrongs don't make a right. =.=
It's a logical fallacy that he has made. Cheating to get revenge doesn't change the fact that he has cheated. In fact, it only puts him in the same level as what his girlfriend was. So if he labeled her a cheater, I don't see how he is any different.
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what he did was wrong
I think what he did was wrongI think what he did was wrong. Sometimes, revenge isn't the only option. if you do the same mistakes as others do,then what would be the difference between you and others !?!?!
"An eye for an eye makes the world blind"
I would call it somewhat "Sending it back to the sender"
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