help..what was she doing?

[beener]

Hello, I am a 30 year old mom of 3 and I just need some advice. I am posting this on this forum because I am not sure what to think.

I am married and to keep the story short and to the point. I was taking some classes at a college. One of my college teachers invited me to her house to tutor me on a test that we were going to be taking...I had failed the first one.

We are both female and both married but I got a weird vibe from her..unless it was just me. But I thought it was different because she didn't invite any of the other ladies who failed the test to her house to tutor them. (I asked them...) So I kinda felt odd but went. She helped me study some and then asked me if I had to go to the bathroom or wanted anything to eat. I told her no. Later on after studying she asked me again..and again I said no. Her husband was home. I left and then later that week in class she asked me again if I needed help we could meet at a coffee shop or her house again..I politely turned her down because I didn't need anymore help. She helped me study one day after class and we ended up making small talk about other things..it seemed like she asked more questions about me but nothing out of the ordinary..or that would scream..that she was "hitting" on me..she complimented me that day and said that I looked great and my hair was cute..but she could have been being nice..

We then texted on our phones a couple times about school and then she knew I was having trouble at home with personal problems and told me if I needed to call her I could..at anytime. Well school was over and we had kinda made a "bonde" I guess. But, at one point I had texted her 2-3 days in one week..I again was having issues at home and needed someone to talk to..plus she offered..and said she would be "here" for me any time no matter what. One of those 3 times I texted her at like 11pm and got a message back the next morning and said that I texted her too much and too late, and she said she didnt mind I texted her but not that late and that much(i hadn't texted her that much..plus she was the one that was asking me really personal questions one night until midnight). That hurt and so I told her I would never text her again...I felt like a burden.

A week later I tried to call her and she blocked me phone number and then I tried to email 2 times to apologize and she wouldn't return my emails. So in the email I apologized for telling her I would never call or text again and to please forgive me and I never heard from her since..WHAT THE HECK?? Is this normal? She initiated inviting me to her house 2-3 times and made it a point to get to know me...it has been 6 months now and I havent heard from her..(i did tell her if she eventually wanted to speak to me she had my number and my email)

[dat boy dread]

Sounds like she had a "thing" for you and you didn't take the hint(s),she realized it, and moved on. I guess she's either Bi or wants to experiment.

[beener]

See I didn't know if she was just being nice..or if it was something like that. Why would she block my # if she had a "thing " for me? What part makes u think she had a thing for me& y would she all of a sudden say I was texting too much n too late when she was the one who texted me late at night? She said I woke up her & her husband ....do u think he got jealous? Do u think since its been so long she will try to ever contact me? Plus she blocked my #....

[! Leis.]

Since I read that huge story I might as well offer my 2cents lol.

Well in my opinion, she was just being friendly and I think your the one that took it the wrong way..

And maybe you thought there was something there when there's really not.. She's probably ignoring you because she thought you had the wrong idea.

Or vice versa !

[beener]

What maiker? Your confusing me!

[Ghosts]

Well. She has a husband right?

How kind a person can be is different across the world. In some places, people let them in their houses in and out all the time without any problems. I'm not surprised if some nice guy got robbed and he decided to kindly give everything just to help the robber. Some people are just more "initiative" in terms of being friendly. Honestly, if you didn't mention your age earlier, I would have thought this was something that had happened in high school. What's done has been done, you can move on and find some other people.

[LoveStruckMadd]

Maybe she was targeting you as someone who could be a friend to her. Perhaps she's lonely and not in a bisexual way. Her husband sounds like the culprit in my opinion. Do you not think it strange that she's fine with texting you late any other night except the one that just so happened to disturb her and her husband? Perhaps he is so overprotective that he'll only allow her to go to work or something work related like helping a student from class, and maybe she was only testing out that last theory to see if she could do that much. He may be a very jealous type of person. OR maybe she was just trying to flirt with you. OR she might of just been feeling generous enough to offer some help to a special student and you just happened to be the lucky one.

[Luka]

You have one of these threads in the Gay Forum. Keeping the one in GLB open and closing this, as that forum in particular needs threads like this.

Here's a link redirecting you to your original:

http://www.chat-avenue.com/forums/sh...t-do-you-think

Fanks.