Is It Just Me?

[gabsy88]

Hi Everyone,

I would love some advice on my relationship problems. My boyfriend and I are 24 years old and we have been together for almost 2 years now. Things did move pretty quickly in the beginning since we moved in together about a week after we started dating. Things were going pretty great up until after his little sister came to visit. I have spoken to him so many times about *** and how he can be a little more helpful around the house and he always replies with, "I understand what you're saying." Not a thing ever changes. Also, I'm a full-time student and he works full-time, so I am home alone most of the time, when he comes home of course he wants to relax so he goes straight to the couch and turns on the TV. The problem with that is that watching TV ends up being all he does before he goes to sleep. I on the other hand don't watch much TV. There doesn't seem to be any time for me. We are both pretty much home bodies so we make plans like ordering food and watching movies or getting drinks and just drinking. Those, however, often end up with him falling asleep very early, leaving me to do what we planned on my own. I have made plans for us to do things outside of the house and I find that he loves to really play up our relationship when we are out but when we're alone he just doesn't want to do anything. The *** issue has gotten so bad that I think about cheating on him but I can't bring myself to do such a thing. I don't want him to think of *** as a chore and I've tried to make it interesting but nothing, and then when I do finally get some action it's over in like 2 seconds. It's hard for me to just break up with him because he does work hard and he is a very nice guy who tries his best to make me laugh everyday but it feels like we're just good friends and at other times I feel like I'm his other mother. I have spoken to him about all this but nothing changes and I don't like nagging. I'm so frustrated!!! I know that if I were to break up with him, I wouldn't be able to find someone like him who allows me to be me at all times. Not to mention that he constantly talks about wanting to get married, have a baby and adopt my 2 sons. He says he loves me and I love him too but I can't help but feel like maybe he just isn't attracted to me anymore. When I think about all that, it makes me think that maybe I am just overreacting. I'm feel so alone in this relationship and don't know what to do...

Gabsy

[temptation01]

lol
you two are already acting like a married couple,
perhaps you two need a holiday orrr you two need space
maybe when you arnt around that much he'll notice your absence and finally realize how hes been taking you for granted?
you need to talk to him about how you're beginning to feel and maybe its time you two distanced yourself from each other

communications the key to most if not all problems

hope it goes well

[Anders™]

Yes..............

[Boomerang]

Extended family-member visits can add certain stresses..usually does. The most stressful are a parents extended visit.

[Sparky6]

Personally I hope the problem goes away, but if it persists keep trying to talk to him. try doing something unexpected. Put something on thats ***y and give him a massage. Spice it up a bit to get him interested again.

[twinkle toez]

Hi Everyone,

I would love some advice on my relationship problems. My boyfriend and I are 24 years old and we have been together for almost 2 years now. Things did move pretty quickly in the beginning since we moved in together about a week after we started dating. Things were going pretty great up until after his little sister came to visit. I have spoken to him so many times about *** and how he can be a little more helpful around the house and he always replies with, "I understand what you're saying." Not a thing ever changes. Also, I'm a full-time student and he works full-time, so I am home alone most of the time, when he comes home of course he wants to relax so he goes straight to the couch and turns on the TV. The problem with that is that watching TV ends up being all he does before he goes to sleep. I on the other hand don't watch much TV. There doesn't seem to be any time for me. We are both pretty much home bodies so we make plans like ordering food and watching movies or getting drinks and just drinking. Those, however, often end up with him falling asleep very early, leaving me to do what we planned on my own. I have made plans for us to do things outside of the house and I find that he loves to really play up our relationship when we are out but when we're alone he just doesn't want to do anything. The *** issue has gotten so bad that I think about cheating on him but I can't bring myself to do such a thing. I don't want him to think of *** as a chore and I've tried to make it interesting but nothing, and then when I do finally get some action it's over in like 2 seconds. It's hard for me to just break up with him because he does work hard and he is a very nice guy who tries his best to make me laugh everyday but it feels like we're just good friends and at other times I feel like I'm his other mother. I have spoken to him about all this but nothing changes and I don't like nagging. I'm so frustrated!!! I know that if I were to break up with him, I wouldn't be able to find someone like him who allows me to be me at all times. Not to mention that he constantly talks about wanting to get married, have a baby and adopt my 2 sons. He says he loves me and I love him too but I can't help but feel like maybe he just isn't attracted to me anymore. When I think about all that, it makes me think that maybe I am just overreacting. I'm feel so alone in this relationship and don't know what to do...

Gabsy

too long didn't read . yes it's you

[Åndrew.]

start walking around naked.