Originally Posted by sarahlynn
I would love to go to Cali(: And visiting I was thinking about, but I'm also thinking about money. I'm really close with my family. My parents want me to stay in Hawaii because they want me to be near them. I think just because everyone else's child does that, doesn't mean I should. I am the black sheep of my family o_o
Originally Posted by WaterDemon
That's precisely my point. You're moving into another country, far far away from "home" to live with someone that may not always be permanent. Do you have a backup plan in case the relationship falls through?
- Yes. We've talked about it and if that was the case, we'd deal with each other until I can move out.
The idea of moving out in Hawaii isn't to stay there forever, it's to get used to the ways of being on your own and in case anything goes wrong you would have people to fall back on.
- I understand that, but you don't know my family(: once I venture out, I'm on my own for good. Even if something went wrong, they'll give me the whole "You wanted to be an adult. Deal with it yourself" bit. At least I know that's how it will be at first. Then eventually, when everything's been said and done, I know they'll be there. It's just hard to fall back on people who ask me for money and so on. I've considered having a room mate, but I don't trust any of my "friends"(: I have also been considering just visiting Canada as well and that option is still available.
Originally Posted by Boomerang
Oh I do And thanks.