I started seeing a guy a couple of weeks ago. Everything was awesome. We had a great connection and spent nearly every single day together for those weeks. We have a ton in common and it was very easy for us to just talk for hours.
He frequently told me how special I was and how much he liked being with me. I felt likewise towards him. Our relationship progressed quickly, but both of us claimed to be totally comfortable and happy. *** was an aspect early on, but it was just an addition to an otherwise successful connection, not a necessity.
We had a serious talk about officially dating. He said that he was all for a "monogamous romantic relationship". I was thrilled.
Then a few days later he changed his mind. He didn't want to see me anymore. He said that I was a "rarity", but that he was "messed up" and needed to be alone. He said he didn't want to "prolong the inevitable"
Naturally, I freaked out a little bit and tried to make him stop being such an idiot. I annoyed him pretty quickly with that, so I now have stopped talking to him entirely in hopes that some space will make him come back eventually. I really want to be with him. I thought everything was working fine before. And I don't think that he was tricking me or lying about his feelings.
Is there anything I can do to fix this? Or am I pretty much screwed? What the heck should I do!?!?!