Need HELP!

LA DuDe · 11-02-2009, 10:43 PM

To put in short terms:
Me and this girl crushed on each other.
She was crushing on someone else at the same time.
She chose him (A drug dealer and pot head) over me.
Idk why.
They broke up and she tried for one of my friends and found out he was a fraud.
Went back to the pot head a few days ago.
Still have MAJOR feelings for her.

I don't want her to get into trouble with the druggie she's dating.
But I can't quit on her because of have this 100% feeling we should be together, I just know.

Am I being played?
What should I do?

Whiskey Lizard · 11-02-2009, 10:48 PM

You;re being played.,.. tell her bye bye and move on...

!

alice.in.chains. · 11-02-2009, 10:49 PM

does she even know you like her?

Taioma · 11-03-2009, 04:38 AM

If she knows this guy is a drug dealer that smokes pot and she still went for him over you then that's her deal...just cause you have feelings for her doesn't mean she's automatically going to feel the same way.

A couple of days/weeks/months down the line you will start to realise that all your efforts and feelings towards this girl are not worth it and that you're just wasting your time with her.

She's chosen someone else - best thing you can do now is tell her that you're there for her if she needs someone to turn to.

I'd move on - you're not being played, but it's obvious she doesnt want to date you.
Shit happens.

Louize · 11-03-2009, 06:57 AM

Sorry to say it, you're not being played, you're being kept as the back up plan.

She doesnt want to date you, but if things go to pot, she knows she has you by the sounds of it...

Dont waste anymore time on this girl, move on and find someone that will feel equally about you. You deserve it!!

**sarahlynn** · 11-03-2009, 06:59 AM

Does she even know you like her? Step up man.

Unknown. · 11-03-2009, 08:12 PM

Might be teasing.

ĴǻŶ. · 11-03-2009, 08:35 PM

ask her how she really feels, then decide.

but if she chose him then tried for your friend, its pretty obvious she doesn't want you.

put on that charm and keep on playin playa.

Happiness is a Warm Gun · 11-03-2009, 10:03 PM

Why do you want to date a girl who is dumb enough to choose drug dealers and drug abusers over you anyway. Either you're THAT bad, or she's that stupid. Move on, she sounds challenged.

†[Ćōľє]† · 11-04-2009, 12:50 AM

If u feel that strong about her, why havent u done anything about it? Either do something or move on, seize the day