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Old 11-04-2009, 03:14 PM   #1
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She says that it's always about other people, people msg her with their problems, and never ask about her. I wanna make it up to her, but what the hell can i talk about? the weather, how she is etc, what!? And yes, i do have many friends, and i get on fine with them, but as soon as i'm asked not to talk about something my mind goes blank and can only think about that one thing.
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Old 11-04-2009, 04:28 PM   #2
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You have to know what they're interested in and read something about it so you'll have something to ask when you talk to them. They are your friends because you got something in common.. so I don't see why your having a problem engaging in a good convo with them. Talking about the weather is boring lol. If you have any insight about other things bring it up. And a good conversation is not always about the other person, it's also about you. Talk something you're really passionated about, and ask them if they like it or what their views on it. Be open and spontaneous.

And about the girl, you said no one asks about her problems.. then ask her about it. If she seemed the type who doesn't want to open up to other people, know what other things she's interested in and when you get her trust, she will eventually open up. Also, be a good listener thats the secret to a good conversation.
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Old 11-04-2009, 04:38 PM   #3
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talk about similar interests.
& places she likes to go, and take her there.
you'll find your voice.

sometime.
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