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[Samoshi]

Have you ever fallen for someone who's straight?
A girl or guy in high school or at university/college?

If so, how the hell did you get over it?

[[[ Sunshine ]]]

Originally Posted by Samoshi

Have you ever fallen for someone who's straight?

A girl or guy in high school or at university/college?

If so, how the hell did you get over it?

Im straight but i have fancied gay men ..... Oh its a killer

[AnnabelleBlond]

Originally Posted by Samoshi

Have you ever fallen for someone who's straight?

A girl or guy in high school or at university/college?

If so, how the hell did you get over it?

I don't think you can fall for someone of the same sex,
without them giving you the wrong idea first.

Like you can totally have a crush on them,
But it wouldn't be love/falling for someone
unless they made a move, too.

'Cause love is meant to be a 2 way street, etc etc.

[interesting29]

I agree with miss Annabelle there, you can only have a crush on them, and I have, but managed only to talk to the guy a couple of times and nothing serious. Honestly, I just convince myself that nothing can ever happen so why do I even bother with this and move on. And like everything else, I'll just get another guy to crush on and get over the last one, it's a vicious cycle I tell ya.

[Samoshi]

Originally Posted by AnnabelleBlond

I don't think you can fall for someone of the same sex,

without them giving you the wrong idea first.

Like you can totally have a crush on them,
But it wouldn't be love/falling for someone
unless they made a move, too.

'Cause love is meant to be a 2 way street, etc etc.

Yeah, I did mean Crushing on them.
And I agree, it is a two way street.. like us..

and Interesting29, it's always easier said than done.

[interesting29]

Originally Posted by Samoshi

Yeah, I did mean Crushing on them.

And I agree, it is a two way street.. like us..

and Interesting29, it's always easier said than done.

Of course, but when you crush on so many guys, it's tough to keep the attraction going. Also when I start getting close to one guy "as friends" my mind subconciously point out bad behaviors or traits that are just undesirable, and the cycle continues with another guy.

[Samoshi]

Originally Posted by interesting29

Of course, but when you crush on so many guys, it's tough to keep the attraction going. Also when I start getting close to one guy "as friends" my mind subconciously point out bad behaviors or traits that are just undesirable, and the cycle continues with another guy.

Yeah but not all of us are Genuis' ha.

[Dark@ngel]

Being a young teen and gay, can be difficult.
Crushes with straight men how I remember those days, and don't get me wrong it happens when your older aswell.
Sometimes we appreciate their company and friendship so much we mistaken the friendship with more.
You will grow out of that as time goes on. Just be careful and not make any moves that could scare them away, and lose their friendship altogether.
At the end of the day we are only humans and we all make wrong judgements about people, but learning to supress our desires only come with life experiences......

[Diante]

Yes, I fall for plenty of straight males. I can't get over it. If I like something that I can't have I tend to like it more and more. But what I do is try to keep calm with it... Or I gossip with my best friends about it.. They always tend to know what to do.

[Laurenn]

Originally Posted by interesting29

Of course, but when you crush on so many guys, it's tough to keep the attraction going. Also when I start getting close to one guy "as friends" my mind subconciously point out bad behaviors or traits that are just undesirable, and the cycle continues with another guy.

^^^ Sounds exactly like me but with babes.

If I do fall for a straight girl I still get them, the relationship just doesn't last very long.
Every straight girl I've ever been with has been clingy and obsessed..
I can't handle that and my mind does what interesting's mind does.