Hey! I'm Brand New Here

[Guerilla]

Whats Up everybody! I've been looking for a proper bi/gay/les forum for a while and I think this sites pretty good.

I'm Chris by the way, im 22 and Bisexual.

I'm going to have a great time talking to like minded people like me instead of being bashed for being Bi on other forums..lol

Anyways so, you'll be seeing alot of me around here soon, theres a bunch of stuff on my mind about my sexuality and whatnot.

I recently made my peace with myself, and Fully Accepted what I am finally, for years I've been trying to supress or cover up my feelings for Men and sticking to women but over the years the desire and the passion that built up inside just drove me mad!

I had to come to terms and just admit that I'm Bisexual and That was about a week or so ago, and ever since I feel SOOOOOOO much better.

Still though I have not officially come out to anyone but 2 people, my ex girlfriend, which was very excited to hear about me being bi, and well the guy i experimented with found out personally that I'm bi if you know what I mean haha


My question is, my 1st question, is profanity allowed on this forum? does talking about sexual acts break any forum code? Can we openly speak about our fantasies or experiences with either ***?

anyways, Hello!

[Calaba]

you can say what you like... just got to get around the fucking censors.

and no... no one wants to read porn here. so.. as long as you keep it clean...you can talk about whoever or whatever you want to bang all night long.

[PhillyStorm]

Welcome...

[Tang...]

Oh, expect a nice old flaming as a welcome too...but not from me, Cal, Nem, Luka or Cat.

Edit: And Philly...xD

[Calaba]

Originally Posted by Tang...

Oh, expect a nice old flaming as a welcome too...but not from me, Cal, Nem, Luka or Cat.

Edit: And Philly...xD

or who. or star.

hell lets just get it over with and set the poor kid on fire.

[Guerilla]

Ahh I see, well good tips, I was just a bit curious

So yea let me explain my situation a bit


I sorta want to tell people I'm Bi, but im so afraid of the consequences of my family especially.

now my family is very old-fashioned, they always poke fun at gays in movies and laugh at them and they think its wrong and they know that your born that way and you can't change it but they don't approve of it no matter how natural it is.

Then my friends, which im also afraid might stop hanging out with me if i told them, or maybe theyd hang out with me less, or make fun of me, or just totally ignore I exist.

Theres so many uncertainties that I don't have the slightest clue where to even begin telling people I'm Bi.

And another thing, Do I really want to tell everyone? I know if my extended family found out I'd be the laughing stock of my entire family for ages.



I just wish everyone already accepted it, that we're born this way or develop this way, and theres nothing we can or want to do about it.

I'm pretty damn proud of what I am, I've always wanted to be different anyway, karma huh? lol i got what i wished for and i used to be so ashamed!!

But now i have this like new sense of confidence in myself or pride or something.

[Tang...]

Originally Posted by Calaba

or who. or star.

hell lets just get it over with and set the poor kid on fire.

Or Josh or Mongoose...oh the list could go on & on...but seriously...i'm nice.

Not too sure about the rest of 'em though...xD

[PhillyStorm]

Originally Posted by Calaba

or who. or star.

hell lets just get it over with and set the poor kid on fire.

Originally Posted by Tang...

Oh, expect a nice old flaming as a welcome too...but not from me, Cal, Nem, Luka or Cat.

Edit: And Philly...xD

The only other welcome I would give him is a kick in the eye and than I would call it a day.

How are ya Tangeh..

[Calaba]

good luck with that sweetie.... no matter what you choose your going to piss someone off... lose some family/friends....gain others...

i say tell them though... no use hiding who you are... can't help who your attracted to or love... god knows i've tried.

not that i'm gay or anything... i just think hiding who you are isn't helping you...

and try to remember that your friends are gods way of saying i'm sorry for your family.

[Tang...]

Hehe...i'm ok Philly, yourself?

And Guerilla, if you are proud of who/what you are then you shouldn't really have a problem in telling others.

p.s...Calaba faps to the guys in 300...xD