I came out yesterday!

[Guerilla]

Yesterday I finally got the courage to speak the truth, I told my mom im Bisexual and that I wish I was born a girl, that I want to be one. Guess what, she took it VERY well, my expectations were that she was going to flip out and kick me out...FAR from reality...she's closer now and more loving and wants to share more feminine things with me.

But, my dad doesn't know yet, I don't know how he would take it but, im SOOOO glad I told atleast one parent, its like the weight of the world has just been lifted off my shoulders, I feel more confident and proud to be bisexual and I feel like a new person almost.

anyways, I just had to tell someone!

[Cat]

I'm confused here. If you're bisexual why do you want to be a girl? Wouldn't have thought it mattered.

[Hudson]

Originally Posted by Cat

I'm confused here. If you're bisexual why do you want to be a girl? Wouldn't have thought it mattered.

maybe they mean they're transgender?

[Ŧőйў™]

I'm more worried about why the hell you would want to be a girl.
But congrats , you sound like a feminine person so I'm guessing your 'mom' already knew anyway.


And now you can share handbags!

[Taioma]

I would guess Guerilla means that although he is bisexual, he would feel more comfortable in a female body?

[Ŧőйў™]

Originally Posted by Taioma

I would guess Guerilla means that although he is bisexual, he would feel more comfortable in a female body?

Which would make him Gay , right ?

Conclusion, Guerilla = Gay.

[Guerilla]

Originally Posted by Cat

I'm confused here. If you're bisexual why do you want to be a girl? Wouldn't have thought it mattered.

Well, orientation is seperate from gender identity, I feel as if I should of been born a female, only im bisexual

its not TERRIBLE being a guy but, its definately not something i love or want to be, id much rather be a girl

and tony, no your far from the truth, because I want to be a woman doesn't make me gay

Let me explain it in laymens terms:


I like boys, I like girls

But

I shouldn't have been born in this body, a female body would be ALOT more suitable and right for me, this does NOT change my attraction..i like both sexes, and TS/TG also


Understand sweetie?

[Ŧőйў™]

Originally Posted by Guerilla

Well, orientation is seperate from gender identity, I feel as if I should of been born a female, only im bisexual

its not TERRIBLE being a guy but, its definately not something i love or want to be, id much rather be a girl

You'd rather be a girl ?
A bisexual girl , which would then make you lesbian?
Or bisexual ?


Or a gaylian ?

edit- But surely a guy who wants to be everything a girl/woman is has gay tendencies ?

[Guerilla]

Originally Posted by Ŧőйў™

You'd rather be a girl ?

A bisexual girl , which would then make you lesbian?
Or bisexual ?

Or a gaylian ?

edit- But surely a guy who wants to be everything a girl/woman is has gay tendencies ?

I don't think you get it, I like both sexes no matter what, changing into a woman would not change my orientation.

Sexual orientation is like eye color, its the way your born, it doesn't just sporadically change.

Gay tendencies, well of course I have gay tendencies, i like guys, but i also like women so i have straight tendencies

but in the end, im Bisexual...or to really put it, im a Bisexual girl trapped in a man's body..now since i like men its not unbearable to be a guy...looking downstairs is nice sometimes but, its just not me i can feel it deep down.

It may look nice from time to time but, I would be alot happier as a sexy single female...unfortunately thats not what I am...maybe one day hormone therapy could change that.

[Ŧőйў™]

Originally Posted by Guerilla

I don't think you get it, I like both sexes no matter what, changing into a woman would not change my orientation.

Sexual orientation is like eye color, its the way your born, it doesn't just sporadically change.

Gay tendencies, well of course I have gay tendencies, i like guys, but i also like women so i have straight tendencies

but in the end, im Bisexual...or to really put it, im a Bisexual girl trapped in a man's body..now since i like men its not unbearable to be a guy...looking downstairs is nice sometimes but, its just not me i can feel it deep down.

We could debate all night about whether you're born Gay/Bisexual ... But i can't really be arsed , My opinion is you're not born gay at all , I chose .

( If you want to state your opinion on this there is a debate thread)

I'm confused as to WHY you feel you're trapped in the wrong body when you like both sexes , what would be different if you were a female ? You'd still like both sexes , And I've never heard of a Bisexual man/woman wanting to be the opposite gender , Only Gay people.