On-Line Love

[Pux]

So-
Ya I am knew to forums. Not to chat tho. Thanks Dev for setting me up. So, I have ben reading threads. Sometimes laffing, sometime scratching my head on people's comments which are sometimes harsh. I read with interest, the thread where certain people have apologized to ex's. I have seen the comments actually tearing her apart. I have had a year long relationship in here. OMG- felt like I was in high school. I am to married sad as it may be. My heart was ripped away. My link to life and love was in here. So, I respond to Sunset...I understand and support her. She is good people. I bet everyone in here (most) has been through it. Support for your chatters is needed. Don't trash friends-support them. Don't let this turn into drama. On-line is tuff is it an escape from reality?

[Full of Hell]

aww pux that was sweet.. but you'll soon find out a lot of people in here don't take the time to get to know the person inside. They have preconceived notions as to who someone is and that stays with them. Most of what was said doesn't bother...if you don't take it to heart. After all, it is the "internet". Most also tend to judge someone for what they themselves are doing/ have done. Best to just let it roll of your back I know who my true friends are, and they know that I am always here for them. It's those people that matter most to me.

[SIMMERING]

Originally Posted by Pux

So-
Ya I am knew to forums. Not to chat tho. Thanks Dev for setting me up. So, I have ben reading threads. Sometimes laffing, sometime scratching my head on people's comments which are sometimes harsh. I read with interest, the thread where certain people have apologized to ex's. I have seen the comments actually tearing her apart. I have had a year long relationship in here. OMG- felt like I was in high school. I am to married sad as it may be. My heart was ripped away. My link to life and love was in here. So, I respond to Sunset...I understand and support her. She is good people. I bet everyone in here (most) has been through it. Support for your chatters is needed. Don't trash friends-support them. Don't let this turn into drama. On-line is tuff is it an escape from reality?

Not everyone is on the same level as everyone else nor with the same morals, opinions, dreams or beliefs. Chat and forums is just another avenue for someone to express part of themselves that they wish to express in whatever way they choose to do so.

So in actual fact you are asking why cant we all just be exactly the same with the exact same ideals and everyone will get along. Simple answer is Hell fkn No! Why would everyone want to? Easy example for you here Pux. Your opinion is its ok to be married and be in love and promise the world to someone else when you have already promised it to the one you are married to. In my opinion a married person can not give everything to someone they claim to love. Someone else is expecting that very same thing from them. So couple that with other things such as feelings of betrayal, broken trust, self doubt and pain to that first person who expected that from you and I think my opinion and feelings become pretty self explantory from there. Remembering thats my opinion. See how it is different to yours but I suspect my ideals about marriage are different to yours too. So it is your choice to support Ms Sunset and my choice not to. She is not my friend, nor will she ever be. She is a character online that amuses me and I choose to interact with anyway I feel is right for me and she has the same choices of interaction with myself and other people. Just like everyone else chooses with everyone. That will extend through out life not just online. See how it works.

However, the ones who will suffer online, are the very ones who will suffer in life. They are the ones that care too much about what other people think about them, their lives and the way they choose to lead it. They just really need to screw everyone else, stop whinging and whining about how hard done by they are just get on with being who they want to be or else they will be so caught up in the frustrations of trying to please everyone else that they will stay in their little rut that they themselves created.

I dont think online is escape from reality for me. I come here for my own reasons. I absolutely love my reality and where it is taking me. I would hardly want to escape from it. Some people choose to lead their life in chat. I think if some people put the same amount of creative energy into their "life" as they do with chat and forums then they would start being a bit happier...

That just my opinion though. I love expressing it.

[Whiskey Lizard]

on line love is possible.. two people from totally different back grounds can beat the odds and fall deeply , madly, passionately in love with each other... defying ALL the odds against them......they can stay together.. and build the trust and love.. build a life together...and find eternal happiness in each other....

just ask Duncan and Trenchy !!!!

(yeah i know... but you know i HAD to say it .... )


Lizard

[huffy]

Originally Posted by SIMMERING

[B] In my opinion a married person can not give everything to someone they claim to love. Someone else is expecting that very same thing from them. So couple that with other things such as feelings of betrayal, broken trust, self doubt and pain to that first person who expected that from you and I think my opinion and feelings become pretty self explantory from there. B]

i got no beef with you simms, as i hope you
know

but hows about married, people, who know they love someone
else, online or not, they know they love someone, but also know they
can't give what they should, so don't act on the feelings

just a thought, hope all is good with
you and chris

[Cat]

Originally Posted by Pux

So-
Ya I am knew to forums. Not to chat tho. Thanks Dev for setting me up. So, I have ben reading threads. Sometimes laffing, sometime scratching my head on people's comments which are sometimes harsh. I read with interest, the thread where certain people have apologized to ex's. I have seen the comments actually tearing her apart. I have had a year long relationship in here. OMG- felt like I was in high school. I am to married sad as it may be. My heart was ripped away. My link to life and love was in here. So, I respond to Sunset...I understand and support her. She is good people. I bet everyone in here (most) has been through it. Support for your chatters is needed. Don't trash friends-support them. Don't let this turn into drama. On-line is tuff is it an escape from reality?

Life is harsh and if you haven't figured that one out then you must be living in a bubble.

Frankly all I can see here is you making a thread purely to applaud and condone people like yourself, Sunset and others who are married, probably have children yet use the net for affairs. If any of you had a modicum of decency you wouldn't brag and crow about your cyber conquests, then in the same breath play the victim, loving parent/wife/husband. You'd be a little more discreet and have some self-respect. You talk about support, but shouldn't you actually be supporting your spouse not boasting about being in a year long relationship?

And you must want drama otherwise why would you risk your marriage by playing around? Please come back and pontificate once you sort your own life out.

Oh in response, for some the virtual world is an escape from reality. Where else can people cheat on their partners, act like hard cases, be rabid bigots and women beaters, or just be 20 years younger than they profess. You've more than likely opened a can of worms with this thread so be prepared for whatever comes.

[jamin]

cat you pretend to be 20 years younger than you actually are?
does that make you 100ish?

[Cat]

Originally Posted by jamin

cat you pretend to be 20 years younger than you actually are?
does that make you 100ish?

You found me out.

[Swagger]

I love reading Cats replys LMGDAO

[themauler]

hey swaggs pass me the butter please