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Old 01-20-2009, 02:46 PM   #1
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I was going to put this in debate, but figured I would do it here first for a while, then take it to debate.

Do people become gay/bisexual by choice, or are you born gay?

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Old 01-20-2009, 02:55 PM   #2
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I think we are born gay and when we hit puberty or so its when we gays or bisexuals manifest it. I dont think anyone wants to willingly choose to be gay and be bashed in school or in other general places.
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Old 01-20-2009, 02:58 PM   #3
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What the heck, I voted 'Not sure'.

When i was a little younger i dated girls & had a girlfriend for a while until i was about 15, I'd always had an attraction to males but I'd never embraced it until recently.

I think it's a choice for many Bisexuals because it seems to be a trend and people just becoming Bi-sexual at the click of a finger just to be popular.

It differs i suppose.
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Old 01-20-2009, 03:04 PM   #4
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People aren't born gay.
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I believe its caused by an influx of hormones at a crucial stage in development, while in the uterus.

Thus, being born gay.

Various hormone levels produce a spectrum of gay people.

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The main thing that influences sexual attraction is hormones. You can't chose that.
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how do you know they aren't?? not everyone is born 100% heterosexual , although it may not manifest itself till teenage years

sorry midnightstar that is the most retarded response i've ever seen
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How many more threads need to made on this topic?

Also if anyone knew how or why anyone was born/made/became gay then chances are they'd also know how to change a person's sexuality.
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I was born straight so I'm sure people can be born gay.
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how do you know they aren't?? not everyone is born 100% heterosexual , although it may not manifest itself till teenage years

sorry midnightstar that is the most retarded response i've ever seen
Will now have to eat my words and apologize.


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What Causes a Person To Have a Particular Sexual Orientation?

There are numerous theories about the origins of a person's sexual orientation. Most scientists today agree that sexual orientation is most likely the result of a complex interaction of environmental, cognitive and biological factors. In most people, sexual orientation is shaped at an early age. There is also considerable recent evidence to suggest that biology, including genetic or inborn hormonal factors, play a significant role in a person's sexuality.

It's important to recognize that there are probably many reasons for a person's sexual orientation, and the reasons may be different for different people.

Is Sexual Orientation a Choice?

No
, human beings cannot choose to be either gay or straight. For most people, sexual orientation emerges in early adolescence without any prior sexual experience. Although we can choose whether to act on our feelings, psychologists do not consider sexual orientation to be a conscious choice that can be voluntarily changed.
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