Totally lost

[Confused-18-UK]

Hmm i dunno where to start with this one. Well i seem to have two sides to my personality.... two totally opposite sides. One side is masculine... i wanna be screwing girls and im into "guy" stuff. Now the other side is VERY feminine... i love the thought of pleasuring a guy.... like to crossdress, like to be sub to women.

Anyway when i think about the "feminine" side i get really angry and resent it, but at the same time i really love it? Im totally confused. Which side is actually me? Is this a medical condition or what?

Anywho i don't think i've explained it very well but any opinions are greatley appreciated! Thanks

xx

[AnnabelleBlond]

You're hormonal and you're exploring your body and your mind.

The only answer I can really give is that you could be bi. - But just remember that you can't really change it if you're attracted to the same gender or whatever.

Hope this helped a teeny bit.

[Amadeo]

Neither are you. Both are perfect descriptions of stereotypes and no-one ever totally conforms to a single stereotype so for you to claim to conform to two different stereotypes is absurd.

Either you are exaggerating your "sides" and are just simply bisexual or bicurious or you're just lying to see what answers you get.

[Confused-18-UK]

Originally Posted by Amadeo

Neither are you. Both are perfect descriptions of stereotypes and no-one ever totally conforms to a single stereotype so for you to claim to conform to two different stereotypes is absurd.

Either you are exaggerating your "sides" and are just simply bisexual or bicurious or you're just lying to see what answers you get.

I dont understand.... Im not "exaggerating" either side, im telling it exactly how it is. Your right it is absurd, hence the reason i am seeking help! I dont think it's simply a sexuality issue. Maybe its a mental thing i dunno. I only posted it because im totally puzzled by it and dunno who else to ask!

Originally Posted by Amadeo

Neither are you. Both are perfect descriptions of stereotypes and no-one ever totally conforms to a single stereotype so for you to claim to conform to two different stereotypes is absurd.

Either you are exaggerating your "sides" and are just simply bisexual or bicurious or you're just lying to see what answers you get.

Yeah i dont wanna change it... i love it! ...... Unless im feeling masculine then i really wanna change it and i hate it! Omg i am so messed up, i really dont understand this.

[PhillyStorm]

It sounds as if you are at the exploratory stage of your personal desires and sexuality. There really is no correct answer anyone here can give you because it is you who must discover what may be going on from within yourself. As some have said, it might just be that you have a bit of curiousity and want to explore further and that is perfectly normal. Don't resent any side of yourself. However many sides, personalities that you may have, it still makes up who you are in the end.

[Confused-18-UK]

Hmm, this has been going on for years now though. Being "curious" doesnt really explain it, im not curious about anything. I've tried all sorts of things and i know what im into. As i say its been going on for years and i dont think its gonna resolve itself

Hm maybe i should see a doc

[Luka]

One word describes you:

Versatile.

[Confused-18-UK]

Originally Posted by *Prudence*

One word describes you:

Versatile.

Heh maybe i should just enjoy it? Feel kinda ashamed though :\

[Luka]

Originally Posted by Confused-18-UK

Heh maybe i should just enjoy it? Feel kinda ashamed though :\

Course you should, you only live once.

I have a masculine voice .. but I'm far from manly. My niece is manlier than me. Mind you she's obsessed with boobs... I think she's going to be a butch lesbian.. and she's only 4.

Have you ever even been dominated, or had a same-sex relationship, or just sex with men?

[Cat]

Could you be bipolar by any chance?