She wants more than I can give!‏

[Scrin Dragon]

Hi, my girlfriend has cheated on me and she has told me that I am not enough to fulfill her sexual needs. I know she wont do it again but she won't let me be their for her. She tells me that she needs *** because its fun and it relieves stress. I told her that I only have *** because its for love and fun; its not a need, it's just something special that you share with your partner. She does not understand why it is such a big deal to me that cheating is wrong no matter how many times i tell her that it's what i believe. Telling her i will not have *** with her unless it's for love and fun at the same time hasn't been working, and just makes her want to cheat on me even more. i don't want to force her to see my ways, I just want her to understand how i feel, because it seems she does not care about my needs, just hers. She tells me that humans are not supposed to have just one partner, and by nature are meant to cheat on each other. For her, sexual relationships between a single couple is social hardwiring and that is not the way people are. When it comes to having *** with her, she is always willing to try new things, but wants me to come up with ideas. Anytime I ask her if there is something she wants in ***, it's always the same answer. She wants me to have all the control, which i don't like taking control all the time. It seems that when we have ***, I have to do everything, whereas she only has to lay there. To me, it's like I give my all, but it's still not enough to satiate her. She has a lot on her plate right now but I feel that Im to blame for all of this. What can I do to help her understand how I feel? What would be the best way to deal with this situation seeing as tackling it head on seems to create even more problems?

[Whiskey Lizard]

you KNOW she wont cheat again ? trust me.. she will.. once a cheater... always a cheater..... dump her and move on...

! Lizard

[32mTexas]

She sounds like a man . Seriously it sounds like you two are from different sides of the street. I would let her go and find someone like yourself who isn't solely interested in sex alone and when they feel like having sex it's for love and not a nut . Move on my friend and let the the woman whore her ass with someone else .

[~+~ Moon Wolf ~+~]

Originally Posted by Whiskey Lizard

you KNOW she wont cheat again ? trust me.. she will.. once a cheater... always a cheater..... dump her and move on...

! Lizard

I agree just dump her she aint worth it

[Swagger]

Drop her like a bad habit

[TheMan77]

Dump her, but keep her phone number for bootycalls

[Mř. Mΐ§¢ЂїЭν†ỡﺙ§™]

Once a cheater, always a cheater. And based on the things she has said clearly she doesn't see anything wrong in her doing and therefore will not change. She's a tramp, dump her.

[Cherries in the snow]

Originally Posted by Scrin Dragon

She wants me to have all the control, which i don't like taking control all the time. It seems that when we have ***, I have to do everything, whereas she only has to lay there.

So she's unfaithful and a beat lay anyway.

What do you want her for?

[~Summy~]

Dump er...

[SelfMedicated]

All these people are wrong just treat her like the ***** she is tie her up bang her then go out for cigs and come back in an hour and ask her if she still likes you being in control.