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Old 06-16-2009, 11:24 AM   #1
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Educate Those Around Them
Ignorance is never bliss. Try to extend your conversations of tolerance to the kids' friends, parents and teachers. Try to increase awareness about the risk of ridicule or harm from the child's peers. This is also an opportunity to discuss communication techniques with teachers. Don't wait until an incident arises where a conversation of tolerance must be presented. Start educating early. In classrooms, for instance, let educators know that it's not appropriate to single out or identify the children with gay parents, but do make them aware of their presence.

Lead by Example
Kids and the community often mirror your actions as a parent, teacher or educator. Monitor how you refer to gay people and your actions around gay individuals. In your comfort and acceptance lies theirs.

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Old 06-16-2009, 11:28 AM   #2
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Maybe the children can then teach the parents not to hate.


Teaching Youth Not to Hate

Here’s our Lesson #9: It is high time we accept human nature and understand that varied sexual identities exist on the planet. It always has and always will. Perpetual denial of this fact is ludicrous and dangerous. We’ve seen time and time again that it leads to shame, secrecy, violence and even death. Is this what we want for our children? No.

School is where we learn about life. It is here that we all participate in a microcosm of the world. Staying home and just learning from our parents is not how cultures advance. The world is a much bigger place. School is where we experience new ideas, interact with varied cultures, form opinions, and evolve. There is no sense in pretending that coming of age will never happen and occurs in many individualized forms. It’s time we acknowledge this as a simple, non-threatening fact of life. Bigotry and hatred have no place in the formative years of youth. Period. End of lesson.

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Old 06-24-2009, 08:29 AM   #3
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Old 06-28-2009, 12:16 PM   #4
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Stonewall, Teaching Tolerance, Lessons Learned?



Stonewall, 40 Years Later, What Has Been Achieved?
By Louis A. Ruprecht
June 26, 2009

Greenwich Village has a rare beauty in the early summer, when the days tend to be breezy and nights are still cool. I have never seen the place better kept, each and every park and thoroughfare brilliantly manicured with flowers and spices positively exploding into an orgiastic display of midsummer colors. Most all of the storefronts were painted in rainbow patterns that beautifully set off the gardens. It was the summer solstice. And it is the fortieth anniversary of the Stonewall riots that symbolically announced the birth of a gay rights movement in the United States, rights for a community that would no longer be ignored. Quite suddenly, coming out of the closet meant hitting the streets.

What had it all meant? What had been achieved?

The short answer is “tolerance,” I suppose, the gradual acknowledgment that a person’s sexual practices are a private matter if anything is in this crazy world of sometime-security and continual surveillance. People may not actively endorse a lifestyle, but they accept its existence as normal now, and permit it a quiet coexistence, granting the lifestyle a place in the community or communities of which we now imagine ourselves to be a part.

The lifestyle, the identity, is generally accepted now, especially in the generation that has come of age since Stonewall. The whole thing is generational, and that generational kind of tolerance has been achieved after a fashion.

But what does it mean? What does the alchemical magic that turns private sexual activity into a public lifestyle, and then into a social identity, do to the politics of sexuality? Ironically, it turns thoughts to marriage, and not only because it is summertime in New York, and the solstice is upon us.

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Valley reflects on 40th anniversary of Stonewall riots
by Nicole C. Brambila
June 28, 2009

“Stonewall symbolized a turning away from assimilation efforts to ask straight people for tolerance to a more aggressive stance of asking for our rights.”

A lot has changed since the days gays and lesbians couldn't touch each other in public, but advocates are quick to point out more still needs to be done: ending the military's policy of banning gays from opening serving, creating federal recognition of same-*** relationships and anti-discrimination protections.

http://www.mydesert.com/article/2009...13/1026/news12



A level of tolerance isn't enough. There's still a long way to go. Tolerance still has to be taught. Class is NOT over.
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Old 06-28-2009, 08:02 PM   #5
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Will you fuck off with your gay preaching in here. People will either accept gays or not and not amount of you and others pontificating will make them think differently.
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I'm willing to bet;
if they taught tolerance within schools,
it'd be the immature/bludge class, with the kids laughing and giggling and shet.

you can't force tolerance onto people.
and like cat said, you'll either hate or love gays.
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Educating is hardly the same as forcing.

People can learn to be tolerant of gays just like they learned to be tolerant of blacks, Asians, women in positions of authority, etc.
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Educating is hardly the same as forcing.

People can learn to be tolerant of gays just like they learned to be tolerant of blacks, Asians, women in positions of authority, etc.
Only time seems to have gotten people to be tolerant of all the people quoted above which I have seen in revolutionize way of thinking in the 66 years I've been on this planet!
However in some countries there is one heck of a long way to go yet hence all the fighting and wars in the world today but in my opinion its the Muslims we have got to watch as they are so intolerant AND they are the fastest growing Racial People in the world so soon to be taken over my a Muslim Rule!
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Exposing Hidden Homophobia

Students learn to spot bias in their culture —and confront their own homophobia in the process.

Sarah Arnold was in a bind.

On the surface, the students in her 11th-grade English courses seemed to have their act together. Like so many people their age, Arnold's students saw open homophobia as uncool.

On the other hand, when Arnold listened to her students talking before the bell, she often heard an anti-gay undertone that disturbed her. Students might utter the phrase "that's so gay," or crack jokes about anything that defied gender stereotypes. And Arnold had to wonder why so few gay people in Elkhorn, Wis. were out of the closet.

"Some people would say we don't have a wide demographic variety here," Arnold said of the 94-percent-white Elkhorn Area High School. "It's more accurate to say that we have demographics that aren't acknowledged."

Arnold took on the problem directly in "Exposing Hidden Homophobia," a 37-day unit in which her students examined electronic media, short fiction and finally a novel of their choice to find the covert and overt ways our culture sends demoralizing messages to gay people.

She got them started slowly. Their first assignment: spend a class period writing an essay about one thing that makes you different from other people. Students would return to that essay again and again throughout the unit, as they conducted an in-depth exploration of depictions of the GLBTQ community in the mass media.

Students watched the film Trevor (about the struggle of a gay teen in the Bible Belt in the 1970s), viewed a PBS special about the anti-gay murder of Billy Jack Gaither, did Internet research on the nature of homophobia and, ultimately, selected and read a book from a short list of young adult works about gay issues (including Rainbow Boys, Getting It, A Tale of Two Summers and The Laramie Project, among others).

Her students resisted at first. Many didn't want to be seen carrying gay-themed books around school, fearful of how they'd be perceived by others. Some parents also balked: many people in Elkhorn attend churches that interpret the Bible as condemning homosexuality. In addition, administrators fretted about devoting more than a month of instruction to a single theme.

Still, Arnold had done her homework. When parents or administrators questioned the plan, she was able to show how it supported higher-order thinking skills. She had each student assemble and present, in a professional manner, a portfolio on their research. Students had to define sociological and literary terms used in the unit, analyze examples of gay themes in the media, do qualitative research to examine the changing culture within their schools and in the world outside, and write a letter explaining what they learned from the unit. Ultimately, the unit met almost every one of Wisconsin's state standards for writing.

Arnold made the unit optional, but despite initial discomfort on the part of some parents and students, all of Arnold's students chose to complete the portfolio.

The climate in Elkhorn didn't change overnight, but membership in the school's newly-formed Gay-Straight Alliance grew, and students' portfolios showed small but significant shifts in attitude. One student, who self-identified as "against gays and lesbians" at the beginning of the unit, later wrote: "Gay people cannot help how they feel and that is OK, I understand, I am just not for it. Most importantly, when people use that phrase 'That is so gay,' it hurts everyone, not just gays."

You don't need 37 days of class time to broach the topic of hidden homophobia, Arnold notes. Short nonfiction works such as "A Rose for Charlie" take only a few class periods to explore and are easier to work into a schedule.

By keeping an eye out for current events related to gay issues, teachers may find opportunities to start a discourse. Arnold recalls how she sparked a lively discussion by simply providing her students with a copy of a newspaper story about a hate group that protests at the funerals of gay people and soldiers killed in the Iraq war.

"All you have to do is bring it up, and the kids launch into a conversation," Arnold said. "They say, 'can you believe people would say these things?' And that's a chance to talk about what we ourselves are saying, and the effect our words have."

Teachers and administrators who have seen Arnold's work have been inspired to incorporate it into their own curriculum. Colleen Rafter, principal of Raritan High School in Hazlet, N.J., said that after seeing Arnold's approach, she encouraged her English department to adopt a similar curriculum.

"We really want to make a change in how people think and act," Rafter said. "I will try to be more brave on these issues myself."

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Will you fuck off with your gay preaching in here. People will either accept gays or not and not amount of you and others pontificating will make them think differently.
After centuries of PREACHERS preaching about the sins/evils of homosexuality, and their followers acting on those preacher's pronouncements (ranging from hate speech to hate crimes), it's about time another side is heard.

And there's a difference between pontificating and seeking understanding.
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