lying bfs

[daniel2244]

don't you hate bf's that say there with you but there always saying to other people that they like them, how does it make you feel, maybe hurt or that there cheating on you x

[reeve1987]

hi and welcome to chat avenue.

i dont have that issue, however my fiance does have this exact same responce, and ironicaly im only down the road from you, just outside canterbury. but the best thing to do is simply not let it bother you and remember he is with you, not those other people.

[daniel2244]

thank you, does he, so you suggest to ignore it as there with you, oh where abouts are you

[reeve1987]

Originally Posted by daniel2244

thank you, does he, so you suggest to ignore it as there with you, oh where abouts are you

its unwise to specify what town you live in on a forum, so be carefull.
me and my fiance have some troubles, but we work through them, i dont know how old you are, how long you have been together, but its always best to remember that he is with you, and that even if he says he likes someone else its probably just meaningless words. or if its someone in the media like...john barrowman, dont worry about that! its not easy to ignore it, but if you can learn to deal with it then its not a problem, as long as he isnt cheating on you.

[daniel2244]

oh ok, well its like some of his mates that he says there hot and stuff behind my back and it worrys me that he actually likes that person, hope you and your fiance are ok tho, i don;t like hearing about couples splitting

[reeve1987]

Originally Posted by daniel2244

oh ok, well its like some of his mates that he says there hot and stuff behind my back and it worrys me that he actually likes that person, hope you and your fiance are ok tho, i don;t like hearing about couples splitting

haha we aint gunna split up, so no worries there. He might be saying it behind your back because he knows your not comfortable with it and if he is saying it with his mates it could also just to fit in, i joke around with my mates, flirt with them and stuff but me and my mates know its totaly harmless so i dont have any worries over it. but yeah, best thing you can do is talk to him about it. how long u guys been together? and what age group do you fit into? teens 20's 30+'s?

[daniel2244]

aww thats good, thank you, your probery right, were teens bth 18 x

[reeve1987]

(i was kinda hoping you wouldnt actually state ur age lol) also i hope the forum admin/mods dont mind me asking u what ur age range is but there was a point for asking.

if your both late teens then he should be understanding enough for you to talk to as long as you dont come over as accusing or agressive in tone of voice/body language, just try to get used to it and let him know, yes your uncomfortable with it, but if your willing to try then definatly try and get him so its not behind your back maybe? it might be easier if he is more open about it.

[daniel2244]

il ask him to bee more open about it x

[reeve1987]

best thing to do, at least he isnt earlier teens where immaturity would play a large factor into it, hence why i asked about your age. but good luck with it. and i wish you all the best, this forum is a great resource for advice, so any troubles, dont forget us.