What to do??

JerseyBoi · 09-07-2009, 05:53 PM

Okay, I have a problem with my boyfriend.

We've been dating for two months and ever since he has no trust in me. He's constantly texting me {and freaks when I don't text back right away}, always on my facebook profile, twitter profile, etc. Sending messages to people I talk to asking if I've been acting suspicious.

Its driving me to the point that I want to break up. Part of me says I should because if there is not trust, then there is no relationship. I want a relationship but not like this.

What should do? What should I say?

~thanks in advance~

Melchizedek · 09-07-2009, 06:04 PM

The best thing to do is just talk to him about it.

Good Luck.

TITAN · 09-07-2009, 07:49 PM

Yes, I too would suggest talking to your bf. Tell him how the lack of trust makes you feel. Let him know its ruining the relationship. Try to ask him and find out why he isn't able to trust you. Could be anything from past relationships that he has been able to trust. Could be someone telling him not to trust you, etc. The point is you wont know until you talk about this. It can also happen that he wont open up to you. In this case be assertive and do let him know that although you love him very much you feel like the relationship wont go anywhere and that if this doesn't change or you guys don't wonk it out you will not stay in this relationship.

Good luck.

Luka · 09-09-2009, 06:43 PM

Put him on a sex ban until he grows the fuck up.

toby · 09-10-2009, 06:01 AM

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Originally Posted by Luka

Put him on a sex ban until he grows the fuck up.

Ouch!!! not the s e x ban

tobes xxxxx

reeve1987 · 09-10-2009, 06:26 AM

talk to him, i had the same problem and ended up having blazing arguements over it. but its getting better. dont expect an immediate fix. it takes time to work out. but talk to him, dont corner him though. and if you both work, you'll see improvements

good luck fella

GLENBERVIE · 09-10-2009, 02:45 PM

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Originally Posted by reeve1987

talk to him, i had the same problem and ended up having blazing arguements over it. but its getting better. dont expect an immediate fix. it takes time to work out. but talk to him, dont corner him though. and if you both work, you'll see improvements

good luck fella

I agree with this post and others like it as any relationship will blossom if the two participants can always COMMUNICATE with each other by talking, sorting out differences and boundaries and if your that lucky joining together as one not banning that part of your relationship!