Ex-Boyfriend Situation

[USAK1NG]

I had this boyfriend of mine that i was dating for about 1 year and a half. I knew him for 4 years. Anyway in March he broke up with me becuase his friend kept making fun of me and i called him a bad word. I cant stop thinking about my ex-boyfriend though. I love him so much and want to be with him forvever. I also have a crush on 2 of my brothers friends at school. I dont know what to do and im cojnfused. I still want to date my ex alot though and always think about him. If anyone has advise then please post. If you would rather talk on aim or msn my aim is

[Nikolas]

Seriously I think that you are to young to be worrying about this, to be quite honest. Relax and have some fun while you still can.

[Candescence.]

I might have the wrong end of the stick here, you wern't exactly clear..

So if this guy broke up with you because his friend was making fun of you and you called him a "bad word"?? What does that tell you?? He's obviously not worth it - maybe he just wanted an excuse to end it.. If he loved you at all, he wouldn't break up with you over something stupid like that..
I know it's hard if you still love him, but my advice would be to move on because he honestly sounds like a prick.

Edit: I've removed your email, please don't post it again in forums, give it out in pm..

[USAK1NG]

Well i feel like he really did love me. I mean we have been throguh lots os fights in the past. I just cant stop thinknig about him, i love him so mcuh and not being with him just breaks my heart. I have tried to move on many times and not think abotu him, but it never works. Everynight i sweat in my sleep becuase i am afraid that he will get hurt or that something bad will happen to him. I mean this is ruining my entire life. I would do anything to get him back honestly. The only way i will ever sleep right again and be happy is if he is with me.

[Candescence.]

Originally Posted by USAK1NG

Well i feel like he really did love me. I mean we have been throguh lots os fights in the past. I just cant stop thinknig about him, i love him so mcuh and not being with him just breaks my heart. I have tried to move on many times and not think abotu him, but it never works. Everynight i sweat in my sleep becuase i am afraid that he will get hurt or that something bad will happen to him. I mean this is ruining my entire life. I would do anything to get him back honestly. The only way i will ever sleep right again and be happy is if he is with me.

Like I said to someone else; you can't MAKE somebody be with you, it's intirely up to them, it's their choice and I doubt anything you do will be able to change that or it would have happened by now..

If it makes you feel any better, you could try asking him back, but make sure you don't apologize because from what you told me, you did nothing wrong for him to deserve an apology.

I personally wouldn't ask someone back that dumped me because I called his friend a "bad name", it just tells me he's not worth it and thinks more of his friend than his actual gf. But like I said before, you haven't told me everything, maybe you've done things in the past that he's not pleased about, and you doing what you did was the last straw for him? I honestly don't know..
But I stick with what I said before; move on, despite how hard it'll be, it'll only get easier in time although you may not think it now, but what's the point in hanging onto something that's by the sounds of it, is never going to happen? And I know that's easy to say than do.. but it's my best advice..

[§ØLÌÐ*§ÇØÛŠÊ]

As I told someone else last week the only way to get over someone is trial and error with other people. If he is "the one", if you believe there is such a thing ,then you would also believe in "fate" and fate will bring you two back together if you are meant to be. You have been with this guy for over a year while you are still young so obviously you will still have very strong feelings for him but after the way he treated you I'm not sure that he deserves you and I'm sure that you will get over him.

Make a move on one of these two guys you have a crush on even if it's just foir a bit of fun, it may develop into something more serious and the one certainty is that it will take your mind off the ex.

[USAK1NG]

well i guess i could try to go out with one of the other guys. It will take time to forget about my ex though. Alot of time.

[USAK1NG]

well i am kinda doing better now guys. I still sweat alot night, but i think i am getting over it even thoguh i still love him. I thought maybe i could make a song about Ty that has hatred in it. I dont know if it will make me forget him though. Im working on the song lyrics right now.

[Bailey]

How old are you?

Seriously, kids now-a-days... There like acting like they're already twenty-five... Well, anyway. Great job on getting over him, at least you aren't like all those other melodramatic teens, 'Oh my god, my life is like so crappy. My mom is a **********, my dad is her pimp... I like need an Oprah pill...' Ugh, like totally bleh... Yeha, thumbs up.

'How far that little candle throws its beams; So shines a good deed in a naughty world'

[§ØLÌÐ*§ÇØÛŠÊ]

Originally Posted by Bailey

How old are you?

Seriously, kids now-a-days... There like acting like they're already twenty-five... Well, anyway. Great job on getting over him, at least you aren't like all those other melodramatic teens, 'Oh my god, my life is like so crappy. My mom is a **********, my dad is her pimp... I like need an Oprah pill...' Ugh, like totally bleh... Yeha, thumbs up.

'How far that little candle throws its beams; So shines a good deed in a naughty world'

If you had done your research and checked her profile you would have found she is 21:

Originally Posted by USAK1NG's profile

Date of Birth:
March 24, 1985
Age:
21
Biography:
I love my ex alot even though he doesn't love me
Location:
California
Interests:
Flirting, Video Games, Hanging Out With Friends
Occupation:
Glitcher (Might Retire)
Chat Room:
Teen Chat

Which renders your advice, if indeed there was any there to start with, obsolete.