what should i do?

[Steph]

well, theres this guy i like a lot...and im not sure if he likes me back, but i plan on telling him how i feel...but theres one thing thats holding me back..im pretty sure he does drugs...and im really against drugs..and i dunno if i should still tell him how i feel and find out for sure if he does or doesnt do drugs...and if he does, then tell him how ifeel bout that...or if i should juss forget bout the whole thing.....i dunno....please help...if ya can...thanks!!!

[Execution]

It's his choice and it shouldn't affect how you feel about him unless it significantly changes his personality and behavior when he's sober.

[Candescence.]

If you don't like the fact that he does drugs, then tell him that you actually like him, but you don't like the way he does drugs. He might even like you back and might try to stop for ya. =\

[-+AĩŔ ĢũĩŧåЯ+-]

theres no harm in asking if he does drugs, you should find that out first of all i think

[Nikolas]

Originally Posted by Steph

well, theres this guy i like a lot...and im not sure if he likes me back, but i plan on telling him how i feel...but theres one thing thats holding me back..im pretty sure he does drugs...and im really against drugs..and i dunno if i should still tell him how i feel and find out for sure if he does or doesnt do drugs...and if he does, then tell him how ifeel bout that...or if i should juss forget bout the whole thing.....i dunno....please help...if ya can...thanks!!!

Find a quiet time to be alone and think. First think about your life with him doing drugs and the consequences it will hold in your life. Consequences such as yourself following in his footsteps and doing drugs yourself. That can lead to early and unwanted pregnancy, could lead to the use of stronger drugs and eventually dependency. Dont say this wont happen, because you just dont know. You could ruin your life on this guy.

Then again, he might be in an experimental phase of his life, trying out pot (just about everyone on this planet will try it at one stage or another in life.) he might let it go later but you will still need to keep in the back of your mind the fact it could go the other way to and he could end up a junkie taking you along with him.

Now think about life without him. You could read about him in the obituary's one day and think "Thank god I never got with him." You could have found a more stable boy by then, one who stayed away from drugs.. Possibly the man of your dreams..

Then again, maybe not.

[Fearless™]

I think you should find someone else. I mean...druggies...are...creepy.

[♥beautiful♥]

I would leave him alone. it's not worth it because chances are if you love him he'll use that to try to persuade you to do drugs.

[Raymond James]

Originally Posted by Steph

well, theres this guy i like a lot...and im not sure if he likes me back, but i plan on telling him how i feel...but theres one thing thats holding me back..im pretty sure he does drugs...and im really against drugs..and i dunno if i should still tell him how i feel and find out for sure if he does or doesnt do drugs...and if he does, then tell him how ifeel bout that...or if i should juss forget bout the whole thing.....i dunno....please help...if ya can...thanks!!!

Its depends on the person and the drug.

But in my experiences people who use drugs use those close to them to scrouge off, they’re needy moochers, emotionally dead, self centered, ignorant, lazy, mumbling boring spiteful idiots, if he is a serious user he’d opt for shooting up or skinning up instead of a cuddle when it should be visa versa huh?

You should just leave him to his drugs, you’ll find a nice guy who doesn’t do drugs and will probably make you his addiction? Lol

[Your Favorite Crush]

Originally Posted by Fearless_Virgin

I think you should find someone else. I mean...druggies...are...creepy.

Exactly my opinion as well.


Find a drug free guy if you're not into drugs.....2 things will happen if you get with him...1. he'll change [NOT likely btw] 2. He'll drag you right into his mess....
Just let it blow over, these feelings you have anyway, and move on.

[Felt Blanchement]

One question no one has asked yet--What KIND of drugs does he do?

If they're addictive, life threatening drugs, then yes, by all means, don't even bother.


But if we're talking about something like weed...Then I don't see the big concern.


Just a thought.