Need Some Advice

[pokie]

hey, i like this guy he's 32yo and has a 5yo daughter, and i'm 19
but i really like him, i just don't know if i should tell him or not coz
i don't know if he likes me that same way. it's also a bit difficult coz
he's a christian and well i'm not so yeah, any advice would be good.

Pokie

[Nebacudnezar]

Originally Posted by pokie

hey, i like this guy he's 32yo and has a 5yo daughter, and i'm 19
but i really like him, i just don't know if i should tell him or not coz
i don't know if he likes me that same way. it's also a bit difficult coz
he's a christian and well i'm not so yeah, any advice would be good.

Pokie

It all depends on what your willing to take on hun he has a kid and hes a good bit older than you he probebly got that kid from going out and haveing fun lol if your sick of going out on the razza you could make a lil family you him and his kid depends what you are looking for if your looking for fun dont tell him if your looking for something seriouse tell him least thats what i think i dont no how help full this is god luck to you k.

[Your Favorite Crush]

In this case...you just have to throw it out there. Tell him. I wouldn't be too pushy about it or anything, but you could just let him know that you like him.
The worst that could most likely happen is that he's married maybe or he won't feel the same, BUT you won't know until you tell him how you feel and see how he feels in return.

[♥beautiful♥]

Well I think you shouldn't. If he's a Christian that doesn't matter, but you're 19 and he's old enough to be your dad.. and he has a kid of his own. If you really love him then go for it, but he may think your just kidding?
Good lukc with this.

[pokie]

Originally Posted by Your Favorite Crush

In this case...you just have to throw it out there. Tell him. I wouldn't be too pushy about it or anything, but you could just let him know that you like him.
The worst that could most likely happen is that he's married maybe or he won't feel the same, BUT you won't know until you tell him how you feel and see how he feels in return.

i know he's not married, he told me when i 1st met
him that he's never been married or engaged(sp)
he might know i like him, but i'm not sure. my mum
reckons he looks at me like he's interested, and everytime
he see's me he can't help but smile(i dunno if that means anything)
but it's the same with me, everytime i see him i smile

oh yeah everytime i go to tell him i like him, i freak out and just
keep quiet, i hate it, but i'd rather that then getting hurt.
i think it's maybe coz i fear losing the friendship i have with him??

Originally Posted by ♥beautiful♥

Well I think you shouldn't. If he's a Christian that doesn't matter, but you're 19 and he's old enough to be your dad.. and he has a kid of his own. If you really love him then go for it, but he may think your just kidding?
Good lukc with this.

i don't love him, but i really like him. yeah he might think i'm kidding with him
but guess i won't know till i say something.

i get along really well with his daughter so that's a good thing, i think
i also get along with his mum really well(which i guess helps??)

[Your Favorite Crush]

Well, it's like pulling off a bandaid...just say it. I know it may seem really hard, but it's so easy. When I like someone I just tell them. Although someone once said 'You have balls.' Which is not even true, but I understand that they admired my courage. Liking someone is something that you shouldn't keep to yourself. It makes a person feel good to know they're liked and I promise you that telling him will ease your nerves so much! It'll all be out in the open. If nothing else, get yourself in a good mood, practice if you need to, and just tell him!!!!

[Candescence.]

Originally Posted by Your Favorite Crush

In this case...you just have to throw it out there. Tell him. I wouldn't be too pushy about it or anything, but you could just let him know that you like him.
The worst that could most likely happen is that he's married maybe or he won't feel the same, BUT you won't know until you tell him how you feel and see how he feels in return.

I agree with YFC.

Also, if he liked you, he would would be giving off some signals to tell you so, you just have to pick them up.
But if you can't wait that long, then just come out and say it to him, he might even be waiting for you to say something.. =\

[§ØLÌÐ*§ÇØÛŠÊ]

In terms of age differences 12 years isn't really that much. Send him the signals, conciously flirt with him. If you're scared of asking him out just up the flirting so it's very noticable, if he does the same then it means that he does like you. The only way to sort things is to eventually tell him how you feel anyways. You don't want to go through your life thinking 'what if'.

[bindi]

i say go 4 it sweeti...ul ALWAYS wonder if u dont! & it could turn out 2 b sumthin mor beatiful than u cood eva imagin! i no how scary it is...but it realy is worth da risk...ur friendship shood b abl 2 get past anthin...good luck

[sexi irish]

Originally Posted by pokie

hey, i like this guy he's 32yo and has a 5yo daughter, and i'm 19
but i really like him, i just don't know if i should tell him or not coz
i don't know if he likes me that same way. it's also a bit difficult coz
he's a christian and well i'm not so yeah, any advice would be good.

Pokie

unless either of u are extremely religious and uncompromising
religion shouldn't be an issue
but the child should
you should realise if u tell him of ur feelings
and things progress
the responsibility u take on being a figure in this child's life
u must be careful not to get in too deep
until u've thought it out fully
and the age thing will be an issue
remember if u want to live like a 19 year old
he is past that age
and is living the life of a grown up
so take your decision carefully
and remember ur only 19
and there is alot of fish in the sea