Wtf do I do?

Lezbayne · 06-17-2006, 05:52 AM

Hokey..
So.
I'm in love with a girl, she loves me back.
She's in an abusive relationship for the abuse.
She wants out of the relationship.
She's scared of the girl.
I feel like "the other woman" in this situation, because we both spill our guts out to eachother.
Her girlfriend knows how she feels about me.
Whta the fuck do I do?

Keikoa · 06-17-2006, 06:12 AM

Well maybe she can just run away i mean unless the other girl is going to come after her with a vengence and try to kill her then its possible that she needs to go to the authorities if tits that serious. But if she doesn't leave and she hesistates, and if the other girl knows then maybe you should find somebody else and that isn't the best person for you.

Your Favorite Crush · 06-17-2006, 01:38 PM

Hey Cas, not much you can do sweety. She has to be the one to leave. Why someone would stay in an abusive relationship for the abuse is beyond me, but you're there for her. She needs to wake up and see what's in front of her. If she knows you love her, and she loves you it only makes sense for her to leave the abusive relationship to be with you [someone who obviously cares a great deal]. And if the girlfriend knows that how her partner feels about you, makes sense to let her go, but then again abusive people look for excuses to abuse.
Just be there for her, but don't be used by her.
Good luck!

Old Man in Trench Coat · 06-17-2006, 03:01 PM

Odd thing people who come from abusive relationships often subconsciously seek out other abusive relationships to take their place. It is a learned behavior and takes professional help to get rid of.

Fearless™ · 06-24-2006, 10:56 AM

umm...well...she should break up with her gf, and be with you...if she threatens to beat you up, then go to the police.

06-17-2006, 05:52 AM	#1
Lezbayne Junior Chatterbox Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Chicago, The Windy City Posts: 953	Wtf do I do? Hokey.. So. I'm in love with a girl, she loves me back. She's in an abusive relationship for the abuse. She wants out of the relationship. She's scared of the girl. I feel like "the other woman" in this situation, because we both spill our guts out to eachother. Her girlfriend knows how she feels about me. Whta the fuck do I do? __________________ ٩๏̯͡๏)۶

06-17-2006, 06:12 AM	#2
Keikoa Forum Moderator Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: everywhere at no time Posts: 700	Well maybe she can just run away i mean unless the other girl is going to come after her with a vengence and try to kill her then its possible that she needs to go to the authorities if tits that serious. But if she doesn't leave and she hesistates, and if the other girl knows then maybe you should find somebody else and that isn't the best person for you. __________________ Keikoa

06-17-2006, 01:38 PM	#3
Your Favorite Crush Silver Member Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: [giggles] Posts: 5,233 Blog Entries: 8	Hey Cas, not much you can do sweety. She has to be the one to leave. Why someone would stay in an abusive relationship for the abuse is beyond me, but you're there for her. She needs to wake up and see what's in front of her. If she knows you love her, and she loves you it only makes sense for her to leave the abusive relationship to be with you [someone who obviously cares a great deal]. And if the girlfriend knows that how her partner feels about you, makes sense to let her go, but then again abusive people look for excuses to abuse. Just be there for her, but don't be used by her. Good luck! __________________

06-24-2006, 10:56 AM	#5
Fearless™ Gold Member Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Under My Skin Posts: 7,503	umm...well...she should break up with her gf, and be with you...if she threatens to beat you up, then go to the police. __________________ Thankies Razyni

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06-17-2006, 03:01 PM	#4
Old Man in Trench Coat I talk too much! Join Date: May 2004 Location: Moosebutt Junction Canada Posts: 2,455 Blog Entries: 3	Odd thing people who come from abusive relationships often subconsciously seek out other abusive relationships to take their place. It is a learned behavior and takes professional help to get rid of.