How do you know???

[DebsMorrin]

Hey,

This might sound like a silly question and i am a little embarassed but ... how do you know you're a lesbian or bisexual? I'm a little confused about some feelings and i dont know what to do .... HELP!!!!

Well do you feel attracted to other girls?
Or when you see a pretty girl do you think; ''Gawd, I wanna sleep with her?''

[DebsMorrin]

it's not just any girl, it's a girl i used to work with and we became great friends. She is really beautiful and i once found myself looking at her toosh and thinking "wow, what a great ass!"

She once confessed to me that she thought she was gay. Both of us are in a relationship with men. I dont know what to do

[Nebacudnezar]

If you are attracted to the same *** only that means your probebly gay however if your attrated to both sexes that would mean your bisexual how you will no either way is by being attracted ina sexual way to either one ok.

[DebsMorrin]

Don't get me wrong, i love my partner. He and i have been together for 4 years and he has taught me lots of things. WE have a great *** life and i dont think of women while we're doing it or anything like that. I cant seem to think to myself about sleeping with a woman because i honestly think i would chicken out if the time came

It might be hormones, dear. Girls can sometimes look at other girls and compliment on their assets.

I can understand about chickening out. I'm gay and I'm scared of same s3x, s3x. =/

[DebsMorrin]

Originally Posted by Karma Chameleon

It might be hormones, dear. Girls can sometimes look at other girls and compliment on their assets.

I can understand about chickening out. I'm gay and I'm scared of same s3x, s3x. =/

Suppose it's hormones. At first i thought it was juat a phase or maybe i was just curious. I'm the "i'll try anything once" kinda gal. I really started to question my sexuality when she broke up with her boyfriend and then started dating another guy. As much as i am happy within my own relationship, i felt jealous. I cant tell my currant partner about this because he has insecurities anyway and this would just bring him down even more.

im stuck between a rock and a hard place.

[canyousaveyourimmortalsoul?]

well heres how i think about it if youre straight you think about the opposite ***

if youre gay or lesbian you think about the same ***

if youre bisexual then you wanna do everybody

[star angelo]

this question iz like WAY past too scientific for this dude

i think it's like e=mc2

in other words....

excitement = meal choice x 2

it's all so simple

[WorldWithin]

New here

And thought I'd post my 2 cents.

There's a lot of gray area when talking about orientation. A lot more than you'd imagine.
You may be curious. And there's nothing wrong with that. If and when you want to venture out and act on your curiosity, I highly recommend it.

Don't worry about getting caught up in the who, what, whens and whys. Just like who you want to like. Gender shouldn't matter.


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