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Old 06-24-2006, 03:27 PM   #1
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Superly massive UBER long story short, I know this girl who doesn't really have feelings for me but wants to meet up and do stuff with me every so often. I think I kinda have feelings for her too but I don't really know (she's an ex-gf) so I aggreed to meet up and do stuff.


The thing that's bugging me is I'm not sure if what I'm doing is the right thing....I'm letting her use me but at the same time I'm just using her..

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Old 06-24-2006, 04:34 PM   #2
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I think you should find someone else. Your both using each other so your both wrong. Just tell her how you feel about the situation.
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Old 06-24-2006, 04:36 PM   #3
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Superly massive UBER long story short, I know this girl who doesn't really have feelings for me but wants to meet up and do stuff with me every so often. I think I kinda have feelings for her too but I don't really know (she's an ex-gf) so I aggreed to meet up and do stuff.


The thing that's bugging me is I'm not sure if what I'm doing is the right thing....I'm letting her use me but at the same time I'm just using her..

little help please
So.. You're both using each other??? Lmfao.. Right.. go along with it then.
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Old 06-24-2006, 06:49 PM   #4
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So umm...maybe you should just forget about her? Get yourself a new gf...
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Old 06-24-2006, 06:54 PM   #5
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I think you should find someone else. Your both using each other so your both wrong. Just tell her how you feel about the situation.
i totally agree with this
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Old 06-24-2006, 11:01 PM   #6
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Superly massive UBER long story short, I know this girl who doesn't really have feelings for me but wants to meet up and do stuff with me every so often. I think I kinda have feelings for her too but I don't really know (she's an ex-gf) so I aggreed to meet up and do stuff.


The thing that's bugging me is I'm not sure if what I'm doing is the right thing....I'm letting her use me but at the same time I'm just using her..

little help please
The help I can give you is to not to come to chat to ask advice for your personal life lol. Everyone goes through simililar crap in our lives. If I could of had the wisdom of my older age when I was living through my youth GOD HOW SWEET LIFE WOULD OF BEEN. If she does not have feelings for you your wasting your time. Move on or be prepared to accept the emotional punch in the gut that life brings you from time to time.
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Old 07-04-2006, 10:07 PM   #7
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I think you and me know the best solution to this problem. Move on. I mean, you two using each other isn't going to get you anywhere right? Both of you may end up even more hurt.

I know I'm not the 'relationship expert' or anything, but I know this is right. Talk to her. And tell her how you truely feel about the situation. I'm sure it'll be fine.
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Old 07-19-2006, 12:44 PM   #8
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Superly massive UBER long story short, I know this girl who doesn't really have feelings for me but wants to meet up and do stuff with me every so often. I think I kinda have feelings for her too but I don't really know (she's an ex-gf) so I aggreed to meet up and do stuff.


The thing that's bugging me is I'm not sure if what I'm doing is the right thing....I'm letting her use me but at the same time I'm just using her..

little help please
If you meet up with her.. Your a friend.. If you dont your .. not worth her time..

If you wernt so much a ****ing idiot .. you would have her heart right now so STFU..

Sorry im drunk.. *runs*
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Old 07-19-2006, 02:39 PM   #9
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well both of yous used each other what i think you should find another gf
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