Cruelty to one another

[Jezebel]

Hello Everyone,

Today at work I was thinking how cruel ppl are to one another ,and how much cruelty exsists in the world, I think everyone knows by know that my stupid ex-husband The Wolf of Mebu has left after been only married to me for two months, but the kicker is he left me for TIA, the idiot stated that about three wks before we were due to get married he said he didnt love me anymore , but see he didnt tell me this until after we had got married,to me this is very cruel, why go thru with something as serious and life-changing as a marriage ceremony ,when you know in two,three,four mths the realtionship is going to end anyways,but if you are cruel to someone that just shows how little respect you have for them.

So yea how has someone been cruel to you and how have you gotten over it?

[toddg]

men r dogs

some males just can't logic out that it's better 2 walk away from a relationship b4 it starts

sadly women pay for some mens lack of brain cells with emotional scars

[Gabriel]

Originally Posted by Jezebel

Hello Everyone,

Today at work I was thinking how cruel ppl are to one another ,and how much cruelty exsists in the world, I think everyone knows by know that my stupid ex-husband The Wolf of Mebu has left after been only married to me for two months, but the kicker is he left me for TIA, the idiot stated that about three wks before we were due to get married he said he didnt love me anymore , but see he didnt tell me this until after we had got married,to me this is very cruel, why go thru with something as serious and life-changing as a marriage ceremony ,when you know in two,three,four mths the realtionship is going to end anyways,but if you are cruel to someone that just shows how little respect you have for them.

So yea how has someone been cruel to you and how have you gotten over it?

That was one of the stupidest things I have ever read in this forum.

You married someone irl from Chat-Avenue who dumped you two months after the marriage for someone else on Chat-Avenue who's completely retarded?

Something that idiotic was not intentionally malicious.

men r dogs

some males just can't logic out that it's better 2 walk away from a relationship b4 it starts

sadly women pay for some mens lack of brain cells with emotional scars

Men > Women f4vr

[♠James.♠]

............. No one has really been cruel to me... But I'm sure I'm cruel to a lot of people. o_O

[AnGeL_EyEs42]

Unfortunately cruel people are everywhere and unfortunately it isnt the first time you are going to get hurt... If I listed every cruel thing somone has done to me then that would take forever to do, but life goes on.......

[jamin]

dont discriminate against gender. men or women...people are crud sometimes.
such is life as they say in france. dont forget though people are also good sometimes, really really damn good.

the secret is to find the ones that are good most of the time (because no one is perfect), and avoid the ones that are bad most of the time.
hey its not a science...you cant always pick em...but if you avoid em where possible, all the power to you.

and if you do come up against a bumhole (regardless of gender), the quicker you forget about them, the better your life will become. the more attention you give to the past, the more you miss out on the present.


-jamins 4c-

*EDITED* for ice so jamin does not have a potty mouth

[$$ICE$$]

Jamin has a potty mouth and no one has ever been cruel to me i dont think and i return the favor by not being cruel back

[Perplexity]

Men are generally more cruel than women. But, hey, even men shouldn't do something like that.

My advice is, as hard as it probably is for you, try to move on and not to think about him. Find someone else, there's plenty more fish in the sea. It'll also help get your mind off that poor excuse for a human being.

[twinkle toez]

Well the world is not getting better , it is only getting worse unfortunatly.
I don't let men stay around long enough to be very cruel and If they are I get rid of them. I have a fear of rejection so I look deep and get rid of them before I ever get hurt!
You did not lose a thing this guy sound's like he does not have all his nutz and bolts! I hope you let it go and move on

[Courage Under Fire]

-bump-

Jamin, I hadn't seen the statement before which you posted earlier, but I really like it. "the more attention you give to the past, the more you miss out on the present."

Gabriel, you can't really make a comment like that without knowing the person. I'm probably one of the few who has met jez in real life. What was done to her went beyond cruel. But as Jamin said, best to let it go. I like to let karma take care of those things jez