Wth am i?

[Thrashed]

For years I had found my self attracted to both males and females like anyone else be attracted to someone. I tried the whole I am just a lesbian thing but then I met some guys that I really liked. Confused about things I just declared myself bisexual. I tend to crave some of the attention from guys but I am more attracted to females. I am currently engaged to a guy and I want to figure out now whether I am screwing up or not. It is rather embarrassing but if someone could please help.....

It sounds your more bisexual than lesbian. But you must sort out who/which s3x you want to be with a woman or a man!?
What makes it harder for me to judge is that you sound like your lesbian but are afraid to hurt your fiances' feelings, and thats what I can't decide if your bisexual or lesbian...
But I do think your bisexual.. =/

[SatansLittleHelper]

Originally Posted by Thrashed

For years I had found my self attracted to both males and females like anyone else be attracted to someone. I tried the whole I am just a lesbian thing but then I met some guys that I really liked. Confused about things I just declared myself bisexual. I tend to crave some of the attention from guys but I am more attracted to females. I am currently engaged to a guy and I want to figure out now whether I am screwing up or not. It is rather embarrassing but if someone could please help.....

Yeah it definitely sounds like you are bisexual to me...im bisexual too...even tho i tend to lean more toward guys than girls....i still like gettin kinky with the ladies...does your fiance know you have feelings for women? If not...i say sit down and talk to him about it....if he doesnt like or accept the fact you are who you are.....then marrying him would be a mistake...because then he wouldnt be loving you for who you truly are...if he accepts the fact that you like both men and women...i say..right on..marry him. But I cant make your choices...and neither can anyone else...you just need to take a step back...and see where your heart takes you to more....

[Dark@ngel]

Mark, She is not calling people Freaks , To hurt People , Now I suggest You PM CM about this , Now I will keep deleting your Cruel names to people that are asking for advice.....and Help!

Now Unless ur needing help and have valueble Feed back do Not respond, with Insults...

Thank You ...

[sireric45]

I agree with Tessa and Karma....



It does sound like your Bi, but yeah...if your Fiance dosen't knwo all about you, then you shoudln't marry him until he knows and accepts that you are what you are. So yeah, its a repeat of what Tessa said. Just standing by them though.

[Xx CRaZeee xX]

Originally Posted by ***MARK C.***

Shes freaking Bi!!!!

IRONIC.
You don't have trouble telling people what sexuality they are, but can't get it out in the open that you're a homosexual.
[No negative tone to this post.]


And Thrashed, I'm not sure what to tell you, you can still be unsure, can't you?
I guess it's a mixture of both; AKA bisexual?

LMFAO @ Bisexual women. xD

You confused chicks are so cool.

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[Who]

Originally Posted by *_Mali_*

If you are retarded and you know it clap your hands



Well at least you're honest o_O

i literally laughed so hard my stomach is cramped up right now, i cant even begin to describe how bad i needed to laugh. perfect timing. omghosh ow.

anyways...

thrashed it is possible that you fall under the category of bisexual, although its your own mix. many people prefer the company of men but are still attracted to women or vice versa, you're your own person and your preferences are unique to you. as long as you love the one your with then everything will fall into place. try not to over think it too much and just go with the flow...

[Thrashed]

Well way back before me and my fiance were even dating he knew i was into chicks. My father is harrassing me saying that there is no such thing as bisexuals. My fiance is actually homophobic but he has learned to deal. I just wanted to make sure that I was not lesbian before I got myself into a hard situation. It looks like everything should be fine then though. So thank you all.

Originally Posted by Thrashed

Well way back before me and my fiance were even dating he knew i was into chicks. My father is harrassing me saying that there is no such thing as bisexuals. My fiance is actually homophobic but he has learned to deal. I just wanted to make sure that I was not lesbian before I got myself into a hard situation. It looks like everything should be fine then though. So thank you all.

im kinda like that so i think im bi to