Am I wrong to feel like this

[fshelton]

I have told my husband how lonely Iam for months. We went to a yearly party and I was having a good time until he disappeared. I saw him on the dance floor with my daughter friend whom he sat with most of the night and then one of her other friends was sitting by me and he came over and told her lets go for a walk. He danced almost every dance with one friend, omiting me not even knowing I exist. I followed them on there walk to the pickup where they were sitting on the back. These girls are 19 and he is 42. I thought if she needed to go for a walk one of her friends should of taken her , but he just asked her in front of me and alot of other people like it was nothing. Am I wrong to be mad about this? He got very mad when I said something and he said Im gonna tell our daughter and her friends what you are saying causing a big scene. He said Im responsible for these girls while there here. Iam still hurting real bad over this and afraid to confront him again since they are gone home. I feel my insides raging. Please help!

[Mezmerized]

hello ... no i dont think u are wrong in how u feel ... but u do need to talk it over with him and the sooner the betta b4 it eats u up... and i think he was totally rude and selfish and and got no manners ... it costs nothin to have manners and just to say what u are goin to do and why ... so talk to him and take it from there ... all the best, Mezzy

[Old Man in Trench Coat]

Yea your husband is a real gem. Seriously at a party you are suppose to be polite and sociable but your husband's behavior is rude. A gentleman's rule is you pay the most attention to the lady you brought to the party if you hope to go home with her afterwards. Your husband's hormones are overactive and yes you have a right to be angry. He may have excuses for his behavior but in my old fashion view it is inappropriate for a married man to act like that. However my views are old fashion and I have been with the same woman the last 11 years or so. Young people appear loud, foolish and dangerous to me. But why are you asking anyone in here? Deal with it or accept it your choice.

[E-G-muscle]

Originally Posted by fshelton

I have told my husband how lonely Iam for months. We went to a yearly party and I was having a good time until he disappeared. I saw him on the dance floor with my daughter friend whom he sat with most of the night and then one of her other friends was sitting by me and he came over and told her lets go for a walk. He danced almost every dance with one friend, omiting me not even knowing I exist. I followed them on there walk to the pickup where they were sitting on the back. These girls are 19 and he is 42. I thought if she needed to go for a walk one of her friends should of taken her , but he just asked her in front of me and alot of other people like it was nothing. Am I wrong to be mad about this? He got very mad when I said something and he said Im gonna tell our daughter and her friends what you are saying causing a big scene. He said Im responsible for these girls while there here. Iam still hurting real bad over this and afraid to confront him again since they are gone home. I feel my insides raging. Please help!

I feel as if there is more to this story......
a few questions:
1. how old are you?
2. has your husband always been Very social?
3. R U the jealousy type?
4. Has he EVER given you a reason not to trust Him?
5. Has he tried to hide anything???

[AMBER!!]

Originally Posted by fshelton

I have told my husband how lonely Iam for months. We went to a yearly party and I was having a good time until he disappeared. I saw him on the dance floor with my daughter friend whom he sat with most of the night and then one of her other friends was sitting by me and he came over and told her lets go for a walk. He danced almost every dance with one friend, omiting me not even knowing I exist. I followed them on there walk to the pickup where they were sitting on the back. These girls are 19 and he is 42. I thought if she needed to go for a walk one of her friends should of taken her , but he just asked her in front of me and alot of other people like it was nothing. Am I wrong to be mad about this? He got very mad when I said something and he said Im gonna tell our daughter and her friends what you are saying causing a big scene. He said Im responsible for these girls while there here. Iam still hurting real bad over this and afraid to confront him again since they are gone home. I feel my insides raging. Please help!

lol damn,well,um,ah, ......you're husband seems like the kinda guy that would like go after younger ppl/women. You know when a guy gets older he always wants the younger,hes probably attracted to your daughters friends,which is very wrong.Age is just a number ,yes i know,but like ,thats just wrong ...and yet,you could just be over reactting.Has he ever dun anything to make you not be able to trust him? and Yeah,Are you the jealous type?...if so i know what you mean i'm the jealous type also,and sometimes take things a lil to out of hand becus jealousy takes over ,But i think you should talk to him about it..
kk
~Amber~

[themauler]

Originally Posted by fshelton

I have told my husband how lonely Iam for months. We went to a yearly party and I was having a good time until he disappeared. I saw him on the dance floor with my daughter friend whom he sat with most of the night and then one of her other friends was sitting by me and he came over and told her lets go for a walk. He danced almost every dance with one friend, omiting me not even knowing I exist. I followed them on there walk to the pickup where they were sitting on the back. These girls are 19 and he is 42. I thought if she needed to go for a walk one of her friends should of taken her , but he just asked her in front of me and alot of other people like it was nothing. Am I wrong to be mad about this? He got very mad when I said something and he said Im gonna tell our daughter and her friends what you are saying causing a big scene. He said Im responsible for these girls while there here. Iam still hurting real bad over this and afraid to confront him again since they are gone home. I feel my insides raging. Please help!

wow thats just plain rude of the guy if u ask me i dont know u or your life but from what yopur saying u have every right too feel this way it sounds like u 2 need marriage counseling at the least its funny how when your younger you say all theses things think u know love but the truth is we never know what real love is until were older and can truly understand all aspects of life i wish you luck u sound like a nice lady tc

[Bubs]

You are not wrong for feeling like that. Your husband is 42 and needs to realize this and not try to make you feel guilty for him making a jackass of himself.

[Sephiroth 666]

Originally Posted by fshelton

I have told my husband how lonely Iam for months. We went to a yearly party and I was having a good time until he disappeared. I saw him on the dance floor with my daughter friend whom he sat with most of the night and then one of her other friends was sitting by me and he came over and told her lets go for a walk. He danced almost every dance with one friend, omiting me not even knowing I exist. I followed them on there walk to the pickup where they were sitting on the back. These girls are 19 and he is 42. I thought if she needed to go for a walk one of her friends should of taken her , but he just asked her in front of me and alot of other people like it was nothing. Am I wrong to be mad about this? He got very mad when I said something and he said Im gonna tell our daughter and her friends what you are saying causing a big scene. He said Im responsible for these girls while there here. Iam still hurting real bad over this and afraid to confront him again since they are gone home. I feel my insides raging. Please help!

leave his ass!!! to me he sounds like an @sshole who needs his legs broken......

[Mark]

Originally Posted by fshelton

I have told my husband how lonely Iam for months. We went to a yearly party and I was having a good time until he disappeared. I saw him on the dance floor with my daughter friend whom he sat with most of the night and then one of her other friends was sitting by me and he came over and told her lets go for a walk. He danced almost every dance with one friend, omiting me not even knowing I exist. I followed them on there walk to the pickup where they were sitting on the back. These girls are 19 and he is 42. I thought if she needed to go for a walk one of her friends should of taken her , but he just asked her in front of me and alot of other people like it was nothing. Am I wrong to be mad about this? He got very mad when I said something and he said Im gonna tell our daughter and her friends what you are saying causing a big scene. He said Im responsible for these girls while there here. Iam still hurting real bad over this and afraid to confront him again since they are gone home. I feel my insides raging. Please help!

You have every right to be mad or worried.
Violence aganst woman,australia says no

[biggey]

Originally Posted by fshelton

I have told my husband how lonely Iam for months. We went to a yearly party and I was having a good time until he disappeared. I saw him on the dance floor with my daughter friend whom he sat with most of the night and then one of her other friends was sitting by me and he came over and told her lets go for a walk. He danced almost every dance with one friend, omiting me not even knowing I exist. I followed them on there walk to the pickup where they were sitting on the back. These girls are 19 and he is 42. I thought if she needed to go for a walk one of her friends should of taken her , but he just asked her in front of me and alot of other people like it was nothing. Am I wrong to be mad about this? He got very mad when I said something and he said Im gonna tell our daughter and her friends what you are saying causing a big scene. He said Im responsible for these girls while there here. Iam still hurting real bad over this and afraid to confront him again since they are gone home. I feel my insides raging. Please help!

no you have right to be mad he dosent respect you like you did to be..both of you are in this thing for life he needs more respect or get out the door