ex bf situation

Steph · 07-09-2006, 11:34 PM

my ex bf(cody) well the reason me and him broke up was becuz we didnt get to see each other much...but thing is....i got my license the day after we broke up...but anyways...gettin to the point....when i was w/cody...i was really happy...u know how when ur with someone and it feels right....like nothing is missing? well thats how i feel bout him...when i was with him...nothing was missing....i think i may love him...but i dunno....
and we havent talked since we broke up...and i duno if it would be a good or bad idea to call him.....i mean we're still friends...but i dunno...i juss keep saying to myself..."i cant call him, i juss cant"...but who knows....its been like 2 months ago...even though it doesnt seem that long ago...but i dunno wat to do...please help....and if some of u r thinkin i should juss move on...i cant...

toliveistolove · 07-10-2006, 12:22 AM

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Originally Posted by Steph

my ex bf(cody) well the reason me and him broke up was becuz we didnt get to see each other much...but thing is....i got my license the day after we broke up...but anyways...gettin to the point....when i was w/cody...i was really happy...u know how when ur with someone and it feels right....like nothing is missing? well thats how i feel bout him...when i was with him...nothing was missing....i think i may love him...but i dunno....
and we havent talked since we broke up...and i duno if it would be a good or bad idea to call him.....i mean we're still friends...but i dunno...i juss keep saying to myself..."i cant call him, i juss cant"...but who knows....its been like 2 months ago...even though it doesnt seem that long ago...but i dunno wat to do...please help....and if some of u r thinkin i should juss move on...i cant...

I think i can help, I lost the love of my life after being with her for two years. She went away to university and I stayed to help my dad run his business. I always thought about her a fter that happened but it hurt alot more to try to talk to her because she was gone and i couldnt be with her like before. There was no way it could be as good as it was. My advice is if its true love then it will always be there sometimes u just meet somebody to ealry in life and u just have to wait it out. I hope i could help somebody as pretty as u I would hate to see u with a sad face.
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Candescence. · 07-10-2006, 05:11 AM

Maybe he's waiting for you to make the 1st move Steph?? Or maybe he's still not over you yet so he wants more time apart..

You could give it a try and ring him, just take things slowly, see how things go..

»-s2-» bébe gir? «-s2-« · 07-10-2006, 05:27 AM

you'll never know unless you try steph... but if u really do care for him u shud go ahead and call him, you might be surprised, maybe his thinking the same thing =]

Steph · 07-10-2006, 09:24 PM

thx u guys...i juss wish he would call instead of me calling him...i might call him sometime this week...lol...its how the saying goes..."some people u juss never get over" i dunno...

†°•· £olå Ðoe§nt Pç·•°† · 07-18-2006, 11:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Fearless_Virgin

Umm...Maybe you should drop him a little hint? Like tell your friend that you still want to be with him. I mean, you're a girl. You should wait for him to call you, otherwise it makes you seem desperate. And then he'll start treating you like his property.

Just because a chick calls a guy, it doesnt make her 'desperate'

and it doesnt mean he will start treating her like he owns her.

Steph ... you have nothing to lose by calling him.
Good Luck

Starfire · 07-19-2006, 07:01 AM

Call him >.>

**Laurenn** · 07-19-2006, 07:09 AM

Well when people break up, unless the feeling never changes, it feels weird when you get back together, so you need to figure out if he still feels the same.

Love is a hard thing to predict, so maybe just call, and see how it goes.

That way you won't have any expectations.

Sephiroth 666 · 07-19-2006, 05:02 PM

just call him it's easy plus who the hell cares what anyone else thinks it's ur life, u wont die talk to him do whatever u can go get him!

07-09-2006, 11:34 PM	#1
Steph I talk too much! Join Date: May 2004 Location: indiana Posts: 1,594	ex bf situation my ex bf(cody) well the reason me and him broke up was becuz we didnt get to see each other much...but thing is....i got my license the day after we broke up...but anyways...gettin to the point....when i was w/cody...i was really happy...u know how when ur with someone and it feels right....like nothing is missing? well thats how i feel bout him...when i was with him...nothing was missing....i think i may love him...but i dunno.... and we havent talked since we broke up...and i duno if it would be a good or bad idea to call him.....i mean we're still friends...but i dunno...i juss keep saying to myself..."i cant call him, i juss cant"...but who knows....its been like 2 months ago...even though it doesnt seem that long ago...but i dunno wat to do...please help....and if some of u r thinkin i should juss move on...i cant... __________________

07-10-2006, 05:11 AM	#3
Candescence. Platinum Member Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: England. Posts: 14,384	Maybe he's waiting for you to make the 1st move Steph?? Or maybe he's still not over you yet so he wants more time apart.. You could give it a try and ring him, just take things slowly, see how things go.. __________________

07-10-2006, 05:27 AM	#4
»-s2-» bébe gir? «-s2-« Not even a newbie yet... Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 45	you'll never know unless you try steph... but if u really do care for him u shud go ahead and call him, you might be surprised, maybe his thinking the same thing =] __________________ sø î lay my head back døwn [&] î lïƒt my hands [&] pray [2] be ønly yøûrs î knøw nøw yøûr my ønly høpe

07-10-2006, 09:24 PM	#5
Steph I talk too much! Join Date: May 2004 Location: indiana Posts: 1,594	thx u guys...i juss wish he would call instead of me calling him...i might call him sometime this week...lol...its how the saying goes..."some people u juss never get over" i dunno... __________________

07-19-2006, 07:09 AM	#8
Laurenn Girls Chat Admin/UM Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Sydney, NSW, Australia Posts: 3,109 Blog Entries: 8	Well when people break up, unless the feeling never changes, it feels weird when you get back together, so you need to figure out if he still feels the same. Love is a hard thing to predict, so maybe just call, and see how it goes. That way you won't have any expectations. __________________ .Laureηη-Elizabeтнн. You're my reality in this world of fiction.

07-19-2006, 07:01 AM	#7
Starfire Banned Join Date: Oct 2004 Location: Cheltenham UK Posts: 4,876	Call him >.>

07-19-2006, 05:02 PM	#9
Sephiroth 666 Senior Chatterbox Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: in a mansion pointing and laughing at all of the homeless people Posts: 3,428	just call him it's easy plus who the hell cares what anyone else thinks it's ur life, u wont die talk to him do whatever u can go get him! __________________ ^.^ I LOVE PENGUIN'S!!!!!! ^.^ FEEL THE POWER OF LANCE ICE THE PENGUIN!!!!! lil animals club ^.^

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