Should I??

Nightmare -Hellish Knight · 07-12-2006, 11:58 AM

..Alright..Here is the deal...I'm with this girl named Alyssa..Those that goto VGC..You might know her on as Kanasamia......Well..I deeply love this girl..But..She has issues..And there are two other guys trying to seperate us...I need some advice..Should I leave her...Or tough it out..

07-12-2006, 12:12 PM

Do you know her in person, or did you give up all hope and turn to the chat room for 'love'?

Issues? If you 'deeply love' her, maybe you'd accept that. But, what do you mean when you say issues? Like, a magazine? Rofl.

Two other guys tying to seperate the two of you? Well. If you really love her, then I doubt that you'd run to the alternative of leaving her.

Lol @ the chat room.

Nightmare -Hellish Knight · 07-12-2006, 12:14 PM

I know Alyssa in person...And when we met a few weeks after first meeting each other I looked at hers arms and she has cuts everywhere..

07-12-2006, 12:22 PM

Then, next time can you be a little more descriptive about the situation? :\

Nightmare -Hellish Knight · 07-12-2006, 12:26 PM

Sorry, My mind is just cluttered up about this. I havn't been thinking straight for the past three weeks.

Candescence. · 07-12-2006, 06:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Nightmare -Hellish Knight

..Alright..Here is the deal...I'm with this girl named Alyssa..Those that goto VGC..You might know her on as Kanasamia......Well..I deeply love this girl..But..She has issues..And there are two other guys trying to seperate us...I need some advice..Should I leave her...Or tough it out..

If you love her as much as you state, you wouldn't give her up for anything or anyone, especially those moronic guys that are trying to split you up. Because believe me, when/if you lose her, you'll regret it, but only then it'll probally be too late. Don't take that chance. Stay with her.

No ones perfect, if she has issues, help her through it - talk to her, try and get her to open up to you.. It's only when you both speak about this sensibly and calmy, that you'll be on the 1st step to resolving the issue.

Zero Xaerus · 07-12-2006, 07:36 PM

Ammm. . .About the Cuts :\ Not to Keen About It.

Unknown Entity · 07-12-2006, 08:05 PM

Ah girls cutting themselves is a nono, get out of there quicksnap son.

Zero Xaerus · 07-12-2006, 08:12 PM

If you date girls with Cuts you'll notice that Cuts will start to appear in you too.

Candescence. · 07-12-2006, 09:52 PM

She cuts because she obviously has problems and it's the only way for her to release the pain..
She probally bottles up everything inside of her until it builds up so much that she can't take it anymore, so she needs a way of releasing it all.

You don't dump someone just because they self harm, it's not going to help them whatsoever, it just shows that they're crying out for help inside, and if you really loved the person, you'd help them all you could.
Talking is a great healer, along with time. She needs to talk to someone about her problems/issues; someone that she feels comfortable with, someone she feels she can trust.. and only then will her wounds begin to heal - physically & emotionally.
Don't pressure her into talking about anything she doesn't want to, just make sure she knows that you're there for her and let her know that she can always talk to you.