Marriage and relationships

[banksta]

Why is it so important to get married to some men and women. I lived with a woman once and it sucked. I can imagine how it would have been if we got married. Personally I love being a bachelor and having my women friends come by, we have fun then they go home. I guess one day I will get tired of that but I will probably be a old man then. Guess the thought of dying alone doesn't scare me, I rather be happy and enjoy my life. We all are born in to this world alone anyway and you cant take anybody with you when you die. All my married buddies have complaints all the times about there wives, and it makes me think why would I want to put myself through that when I pretty much got it made. For one I never have a problem getting woman and I have my own house and woman friends who are on the same page as me as far as s#x goes. I've got it made actually. I get to watch my sports in peace, know one nagging me anymore asking wheree you been, who you been with. Knowing that a lot of my lady friends ask me when I'm going to settle down. Why should any man settle down when all these beautiful women are out here, just trying to find a man half way decent for companionship. I feel bad for women you want love and most mean just want *** and lust for you. What do you ladies think about this subject.

[~**Aniem**~]

well... alot of ppl want that commitment of marriage... when u live with someone its basically free ***.. no commitment... no sharing... just living together... i think its alot different when u get married... i lived with my boyfriend for a few months who is now my husband and marriage is completely different from living with someone... u share everything and u have a commitment... its so much better

[Old Man in Trench Coat]

Originally Posted by ~**Aniem**~

well... alot of ppl want that commitment of marriage... when u live with someone its basically free ***.. no commitment... no sharing... just living together... i think its alot different when u get married... i lived with my boyfriend for a few months who is now my husband and marriage is completely different from living with someone... u share everything and u have a commitment... its so much better

There is a lot to be said about making and carrying though a committment. Marriage this time around for me has been beyond wonderful. A few years after we first met I was discovering just how special my fiancee soon to be my wife was. We were walking along the beach with the haunting gamelin music playing, young native couples were walking about an arms length from each other but sneaking glances with the females having the warm soft smiles. It would of been a perfect night cept there were no moon. I told her you know if we see the Moon shine over Bali I will have a sign that our love is meant to me. We spent a wonderful week there and during the taxi ride to the airport I was filled with sadness. She noticed a tear and said why. I said once we get to Jakarta then you will be going to Manila and I will be going back to Hong Kong and being apart was something I did not want to think about. Just then she pointed up to the sky and said look. It was 5 in the morning but there shining brightly was the biggest moon you ever did see.
But to be honest the first time I felt her hug me I knew that this was the lady I wanted for the rest of my life. And dispite being who I am this dear lady is still with me and tells me she loves me everynight and takes care of all my ouchies and itches. Marriage is Wonderful when utilized properly.