Problems with the Parental

[love song]

I know this is long, but if you would really like to help, I appreciate it.

I have problems with my mom. It's almost like she hates me.
How, you'd ask? Well, she told me she was sick of me, and all last week, she sent me to my dad's house because she didn't want me at my own home.
On top of all that, whenever I don't do something, or can't do something right, she puts me down. Like, she calls me stupid and idiotic and useless.
She doesn't understand I have a problem getting things right away.


And on top of that, I think she found my journal. Where I spilled. Everything.
I think that put the cherry on top of her fudge sundae.


I admit, I don't do too much to help her. But she doesn't know why. It's because if I try, I always fail in her eyes. And she's so mean to me, I don't feel like helping her. I already have enough stress on me. Does she expect me to get straight A's, clean the whole house, read her mind, and still be super girl after all that? No. I'm tired. And her yelling and screaming at me about my failures isn't doing me any good. Except making me suicidal.


All I need is advice on how to solve all this. So my whole family doesn't feel like tearing my head off. I've already tried talking to her, and all that earned me was a slap across the face.


Thank you.

[74 Nova]

have you tried seeing a family councellor? .. i've went through something similar but were not talking about me now.. i know the family councellor didnt help me with **** all but depends on who you see i suppose... how old are you by the way?
the only thing i can really suggest is to take confidence in yourself and DO NOT commit suicide.. it is the act of ultimate selfishness and rather idiotic... i have tried to do myself in twice now, once in the tub and once driving my nova lol... but anyway what made me proud to be me and have self esteem was falling inlove, i dont suggest that you go around prancing and hoping to find someone to love right away of course try to look on the bright side, make stupid jokes to yourself and do as much comedy as you can... humour entices smiles, smiles carry happiness and joy, smiles can lead to laughs which is an even more powerful action then smiles... but im rather tired right now and im goin to bed.. i hope my opinions help somewhat and i wish you luck, if you need me you know how to contact me
take care of yourself and hold your head up

[Laurenn]

Maybe she just isn't in the right mind to be a mother.. As yet.

Maybe something you don't know about has just effected her really bad, and the only way she can get some quiet is if she sends you to your fathers?

I dunno really, I have no idea.

But parents tend to shove the blame onto their children, even when they should, 'cause it's an easy outlet, and you'll just crave their attention even more.

[Nebacudnezar]

Heres what i think you should do HIT HER OVER THE HEAD WITH A BASEBALL BAT NO i was jokeing dont do that i agree with the other post you and your mum should see a councellor together try and sort your problems out good look any way.

[Luka]

Try sitting talking to her when you're both calm, and don't do or say anything, or be moody and bitchy that might earn you another slap. Or, as others have said, book an appointment for the family councillor thing. They should be able to trigger the problem. Has anything bad happened in your lives that may have cause your mother to feel this way? Whatever it is, DO NOT think suicide is the best option here. It'll just cause more grief.
I've also had nagging parents; turned out they nagged because of the same ole excuse; 'I want to see you make the best of yourself'. Maybe your mom thinks that you're not pushing yourself to do good. I don't know.
About the journal, did she confront you about what she saw in that journal? Maybe this has triggered her being this way?
And she shouldn't have been nosy.
That's all I can say for now; hope it helps. =/

[Nikolas]

Originally Posted by love song

I know this is long, but if you would really like to help, I appreciate it.

I have problems with my mom. It's almost like she hates me.
How, you'd ask? Well, she told me she was sick of me, and all last week, she sent me to my dad's house because she didn't want me at my own home.
On top of all that, whenever I don't do something, or can't do something right, she puts me down. Like, she calls me stupid and idiotic and useless.
She doesn't understand I have a problem getting things right away.


And on top of that, I think she found my journal. Where I spilled. Everything.
I think that put the cherry on top of her fudge sundae.


I admit, I don't do too much to help her. But she doesn't know why. It's because if I try, I always fail in her eyes. And she's so mean to me, I don't feel like helping her. I already have enough stress on me. Does she expect me to get straight A's, clean

the whole house, read her mind, and still be super girl after all that? No. I'm tired. And her yelling and screaming at me about my failures isn't doing me any good. Except making me suicidal.


All I need is advice on how to solve all this. So my whole family doesn't feel like tearing my head off. I've already tried talking to her, and all that earned me was a slap across the face.


Thank you.

Lmao. I didnt read all of that. Im going to make a quick assumption that your female. Mothers and daughters.. So close yet so far away..

They get to close and it becomes a case of "whos on top." Mother pulls rank and the daughter rushes off to the nearest bad boy ..-- Ack! ... Who thinks about the dad!

He loves his baby girl but how is he supposed to deal with ---

FFS.. TAKE YOUR LICKS TILL YOUR OUT OF HER HOUSE..

[Zero Xaerus]

I have the same problems with my Dad, He's freaking annoying.

But It's better to leave her alone.

My dad attacks me and my mom because we're asian.

so it's better just to leave her/him be or better yet call the police.

[Nikolas]

Originally Posted by Zero Xaerus

I have the same problems with my Dad, He's freaking annoying.

But It's better to leave her alone.

My dad attacks me and my mom because we're asian.

so it's better just to leave her/him be or better yet call the police.

Hut damn, your a very disfunctional mother f'ucker..

[love song]

thanks for the help everyone.
i'm a bit better now.
i appreciate it.

[hottie83283]

Originally Posted by love song

I know this is long, but if you would really like to help, I appreciate it.

I have problems with my mom. It's almost like she hates me.
How, you'd ask? Well, she told me she was sick of me, and all last week, she sent me to my dad's house because she didn't want me at my own home.
On top of all that, whenever I don't do something, or can't do something right, she puts me down. Like, she calls me stupid and idiotic and useless.
She doesn't understand I have a problem getting things right away.


And on top of that, I think she found my journal. Where I spilled. Everything.
I think that put the cherry on top of her fudge sundae.


I admit, I don't do too much to help her. But she doesn't know why. It's because if I try, I always fail in her eyes. And she's so mean to me, I don't feel like helping her. I already have enough stress on me. Does she expect me to get straight A's, clean the whole house, read her mind, and still be super girl after all that? No. I'm tired. And her yelling and screaming at me about my failures isn't doing me any good. Except making me suicidal.


All I need is advice on how to solve all this. So my whole family doesn't feel like tearing my head off. I've already tried talking to her, and all that earned me was a slap across the face.


Thank you.

wow im sorry. i feel bad. talk to a teacher or guidance counsler. try talking to your mom again tell your dad. ( if he doesn't know ) ask your dad to talk to her or a teacher principal etc. don't put up with this girl you are better than this ( keep your jurnal in a secret place get a new one 2 ) hope i helped.
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