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[TP18]

OK, so I am confused. I popped into chat for a couple of minutes last night (UK time) and saw a few familar names (Vonnie etc), but I couldnt stay long. This was the first time I had visited chat for a few months, as any of the old regs will probably know. I was signed in as TP. (I was orginally tightpussie18 - as a joke, three or so years ago, then TP18, and these days just plain old TP)

I went in again this afternoon, and was having a nice chat in the room, or so I thought, just about general stuff, the weather being too hot, joking etc - just like I always used to......then it was time for me to leave and I said bye, and the mod (Jezebel) said hold on a min before you go.....so I did. Bear in mind, that as far as I am aware, I dont know Jezebel,( although we had exchanged the usual "hi's" earlier in my chat session, as one does to be polite), or if I do, I assume it must be under a different nickname (?). Anyway, she posted something in the room (not pm) saying something about Tia. I cant remember the exact words now, as it wasnt sure at the time if that was the post she told me to hang on and read, or whether it was directed at someone else, so I only kind of skimmed over what it said (which was quite rude by the way). I pm'd her and asked whether that was the post directed at me, and was she getting me confused with someone else (as I obviously arent Tia (I type better, but arent as funny as Tia *LOL*)....she never answered. Then Sweets, who wasnt signed in as a mod, so I am not sure if it was the same Sweets as used/maybe still is a mod, or whether it was someone else with the same nickname....said in the room that I was a cow for doing what I did. I pm'd her, and asked what was all this about? She never answered. The Jezebel said the Sweets in the room "not to bother" ....I was about to type in the room (as they both had ignored my pms) that I wasnt the person they thought I was, and to ask what all this was about, when i was booted and banned with no warning or explanation.

Anyone at all who remembers me as any of the nicknames I mentioned above, will know that it certainly isnt my style to hurt or upset anyone. Although I am not a regular chatter these days, I was a reg for a long time, and I have NEVER upset anyone. I hope someone will please shed some light on this, because this wasnt exactly the welcome back that I expected when returning to chat with some old friends.

It may be that someone has been using my nickname in my absence, I dont know.....I assume that the mods can check up on IPs if this is the case, and permanently ban the offending person, which certainly IS NOT ME.

If Jezebel reads this, then please know that I am not the person who you think I am, if you thought I was someone else, then I dont blame you for getting upset at me ("them", whoever they are), but if you had pm'd me with whatever the problem was, I would have been able to put the record straight. I dont think it was very fair to boot and ban with no explanation, especially after I have been a chatter for long long on this site, and have never needed to have been booted, banned or even warned in pm about anything, by any of the mods.

[TP18]

i tried a few times to post this, and inthe meantime I pm'd a couple of ppl to see if they could help throw any light on this, so if you are reading this for the second time, please accept my apologies.

[TP18]

ok - for some reason I managed to sign back in to adult after being banned (?) - curious....anyways, seems like it was a case of mistaken identity.

Hope we are all friends again now

[Cat]

Have answered your pm TP and hope it explains everything.

For the benefit of any mods who are not aware of it......TP is a regular who has used the room for quite some time. She is who she says she is......has never used any other names, and definitely not Tia.

Apologies for the inconvenience this caused TP.