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Old 07-29-2006, 01:39 AM   #1
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Ok latly i have been having these thoughs of causing people i love alot of harm an i talked to one of my friends an he said i proble have wat he has but i dont know wat it is but i was just wondering what should i do cause i keep thinking of seriosuely harming these different people an telling them rude coments an i just cant stop an the only thing i can do is appoligize but i dont want to lose my friends so what should i do?
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Old 07-29-2006, 10:36 AM   #2
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Ok latly i have been having these thoughs of causing people i love alot of harm an i talked to one of my friends an he said i proble have wat he has but i dont know wat it is but i was just wondering what should i do cause i keep thinking of seriosuely harming these different people an telling them rude coments an i just cant stop an the only thing i can do is appoligize but i dont want to lose my friends so what should i do?
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Old 07-29-2006, 10:39 AM   #3
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Ok latly i have been having these thoughs of causing people i love alot of harm an i talked to one of my friends an he said i proble have wat he has but i dont know wat it is but i was just wondering what should i do cause i keep thinking of seriosuely harming these different people an telling them rude coments an i just cant stop an the only thing i can do is appoligize but i dont want to lose my friends so what should i do?
If you're having serious thoughts of inflicting physical harm on someone, you should talk to a therapist or other trained professional before it gets out of hand and you end up doing something that could cause regret.
It would be best to seek advice from a trained professional rather than from strangers on a chat message board.
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Old 07-29-2006, 01:20 PM   #4
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If you're having serious thoughts of inflicting physical harm on someone, you should talk to a therapist or other trained professional before it gets out of hand and you end up doing something that could cause regret.
It would be best to seek advice from a trained professional rather than from strangers on a chat message board.
^^ I agree..
Just try and put all the harmful/negative thoughts outta your mind for now..
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Old 07-29-2006, 08:18 PM   #5
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Ok latly i have been having these thoughs of causing people i love alot of harm an i talked to one of my friends an he said i proble have wat he has but i dont know wat it is but i was just wondering what should i do cause i keep thinking of seriosuely harming these different people an telling them rude coments an i just cant stop an the only thing i can do is appoligize but i dont want to lose my friends so what should i do?
There are a number of things you might have. What comes to mind the strongest is heavy depression. It might pay to pull someone you trust and are close too.. Aside and sit them down and talk to them about what your going through. Make sure the person is a good listener (because if there not, your only going to be met with frustration.)

If this fails, it might be a good idea to consult a professional. Some medication and counseling will fix you right up.
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Old 07-30-2006, 02:59 PM   #6
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Ok latly i have been having these thoughs of causing people i love alot of harm an i talked to one of my friends an he said i proble have wat he has but i dont know wat it is but i was just wondering what should i do cause i keep thinking of seriosuely harming these different people an telling them rude coments an i just cant stop an the only thing i can do is appoligize but i dont want to lose my friends so what should i do?
I think you should speak to some one ginger often when we think things in our minds it can mean some thing totally different to what where thinking you no what i mean you thinking about doing harm to your freinds could even mean you love them very mutch in some wierd way.

If i was one of your freinds ide be worried :=p. *joke*
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If you're having serious thoughts of inflicting physical harm on someone, you should talk to a therapist or other trained professional before it gets out of hand and you end up doing something that could cause regret.
It would be best to seek advice from a trained professional rather than from strangers on a chat message board.
I was going to say the exact same thing but this smart cookie got there before me. *reps*
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Old 08-02-2006, 01:46 PM   #8
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talk to ur parents, or freinds or even ur docter ask for help, try and get these negative thoughts outta ur mind, ask ur parents to ask the docter to chek for any syndroms u might have, its possible...............speakin of that i think i do...........damn i cant stop washin my hands....................
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Ok latly i have been having these thoughs of causing people i love alot of harm an i talked to one of my friends an he said i proble have wat he has but i dont know wat it is but i was just wondering what should i do cause i keep thinking of seriosuely harming these different people an telling them rude coments an i just cant stop an the only thing i can do is appoligize but i dont want to lose my friends so what should i do?
tell em whats on ur mind loose ur head to em.......just yell out all the insulting comments to em u will feel a ton better AND tell them what u r going through....
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