Thanks Yumi, I definitely think that it is from blow drying but I seriously can't go without blow drying my hair! haha and actually a straightener makes it worse -- I guess because it just fries it. Haha.
I think I need some type of gel or something to put on it -- does anyone use one?
I just submitted my thin frazzled hair question to the hairapy guys so hopefully I will hear from micah

I will let yall know what they say...