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08-10-2006, 01:33 PM
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The term "***"
I have a question for the general public... I have grown up with gay people. I have many gay and transgender friends. I know that it is not a choice but actually just the way things are. My question is... because I have been around gay people so much I havecome to use the word f*g as an endearing term towards people. But my boyfriend uses it negatively and when I ask him to stop he gets mad at me and says I'm a hypocrit because I use it. But its not the same. Is he right? Should I just not use it? Or is there a difference because I use it in a non aggressive or negative way, with affection?
Last edited by skin22; 08-10-2006 at 01:36 PM.
Reason: need to know the word, but understand the point of the censor
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08-10-2006, 01:36 PM
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o_o; It really depends on how you use the word on a sentence.
and for a girl saying sex all the time, it seems kinda whorish don't you think?
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08-10-2006, 01:43 PM
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I talk too much!
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Originally Posted by skin22
I have a question for the general public... I have grown up with gay people. I have many gay and transgender friends. I know that it is not a choice but actually just the way things are. My question is... because I have been around gay people so much I havecome to use the word f*g as an endearing term towards people. But my boyfriend uses it negatively and when I ask him to stop he gets mad at me and says I'm a hypocrit because I use it. But its not the same. Is he right? Should I just not use it? Or is there a difference because I use it in a non aggressive or negative way, with affection?
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Stfu i said..................... !.
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08-10-2006, 01:47 PM
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saying *** makes a girl sound whorish? what about a guy? 
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08-10-2006, 01:48 PM
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Originally Posted by Nebacudnezar
Stfu i said..................... !.
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what?
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08-10-2006, 02:16 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by skin22
I have a question for the general public... I have grown up with gay people. I have many gay and transgender friends. I know that it is not a choice but actually just the way things are. My question is... because I have been around gay people so much I havecome to use the word f*g as an endearing term towards people. But my boyfriend uses it negatively and when I ask him to stop he gets mad at me and says I'm a hypocrit because I use it. But its not the same. Is he right? Should I just not use it? Or is there a difference because I use it in a non aggressive or negative way, with affection?
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That's like the N word. It was originally used in a bad negative way but then the people that were being called the N word used it in a positive way among themselves. Same with the F word. I don't like it....just as I don't like the N word. I use neither.
I think people shouldn't use them at all...but they will. Just ignore it when your bf does. He seems to get irretated.
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08-10-2006, 02:17 PM
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I talk too much!
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Originally Posted by skin22
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Shut the f**k up 
Gay people do not like that term ok.  A fa;g is something you smoke. !
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08-10-2006, 02:22 PM
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the term
i know what you mean about the n word--- i won't use it because thats not the way i was raised. But my gay friends are ok with me saying the f word... they call me their fag hag.
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08-10-2006, 02:29 PM
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punk ass bitch is too long to say
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08-10-2006, 02:30 PM
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To put it easily, I am opposed to homophobia (which really isn't a fear but an irrational hatred), racism, fascism, and all other degrading groups.
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