Ex-Boyfriend Situation Part 2

USAK1NG · 08-13-2006, 10:12 PM

Well as some of you may know already me and my boyfriend has a bad relationship in the past cause he didn't trust me and hated everbody. Then, we got back together, but now i am having another problem with him. Me and him play this game thats online. Lately, he hasn't been letting me talk to my friends and is being real mean. Now all my friends are leaving me cause of him. I don't know what to do and i am scared that i will lose all my friends. Does anyone have any suggestions on what i should do? I don't want to hurt his feelings, but i don't want to keep losing friends. Please help and tlel me what i should do.

Candescence. · 08-14-2006, 08:53 AM

"Friends are for life, gf/bf's rarely are"

Maybe you could ask him the reason as to why he feels the need to be mean to you.. And if your friends were "true friends", they wouldn't ditch you.

USAK1NG · 08-14-2006, 11:44 AM

i know, but my friends ditched me becuase my boyfriend was being real mean to them.

08-14-2006, 12:35 PM

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Originally Posted by USAK1NG

i know, but my friends ditched me becuase my boyfriend was being real mean to them.

Ask him why is he being mean to them and try and get to the bottom of the problem. Reememeber this will carry on with u evereywhere if u dnt sort it out. Ask ur self if this relationship has a future and then act on ur descision. Look at his bvehaviour and how he treats u, the descision u make will affect u in the long term run

USAK1NG · 08-14-2006, 03:45 PM

Well my boyfriend says that he thinks im cheating on him with my friends. He says our relationship does have a future, but he says i spend more time with my friends then him. He sasy there is something called super lvoe, whcih means that he would do absoulutly anything for me. He says i only love him, not super love. He treats me kinda poorly though. Always making me do stuff and so on. Whenever i dont listen to him he says we wont spend the rest of our lives together. I dont know what to do. If you could AIM me and maybe give me ideas that would help.

08-14-2006, 08:42 PM

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Originally Posted by USAK1NG

Well my boyfriend says that he thinks im cheating on him with my friends. He says our relationship does have a future, but he says i spend more time with my friends then him. He sasy there is something called super lvoe, whcih means that he would do absoulutly anything for me. He says i only love him, not super love. He treats me kinda poorly though. Always making me do stuff and so on. Whenever i dont listen to him he says we wont spend the rest of our lives together. I dont know what to do. If you could AIM me and maybe give me ideas that would help.

Hmmm huni from what u said I see that this wount work. look he doesnt trust you at all, and makes u leave ur friends. he forces u to do things so that u please him, coz if u dnt please him he will leave u. how about starting afresh, turn a new leaf and find someone that really loves you. love is not just an emotion, you have to sacrafice ur self daily to please ur partner, but not in the way of what he makes u do. See how long you are willing and will be able to cope with this situation.

USAK1NG · 08-14-2006, 09:07 PM

well i know all of that, but i love him so much that i just don't want to leave him. It's hard to deal with.

08-14-2006, 10:03 PM

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Originally Posted by USAK1NG

well i know all of that, but i love him so much that i just don't want to leave him. It's hard to deal with.

I can imagine, I just feel sorry for you that you have been put into think kinda situation

USAK1NG · 08-14-2006, 10:59 PM

thanks, its just been real hard for me. This has been going on for about a week now, and i think it might continue.

Nikko · 08-15-2006, 06:33 AM

sounds like he wants to control your whole life.. thats just my opinion.. what happens once you give him all your time and you have no friends.. what will he pick at next.. seems to me you have to make a choice what is more important him or you having a life.. you can have him and a life together but he has to understand the world doesnt revolve around him and you need to be able to socialise with other people..

i know its hard to walk away from someone you love but if they are doing more harm then good, you need to make a choice for you and only you will know what is right or wrong