great girl, awful ***

[starplus]

so i'm really not the relationship type or atleast haven't been for the past few years as i've been more into just going out and partying as much as possible but i've been seeing this girl for the past couple months and i really like her more then any girl i've met in years but the *** is just bad with her and yes i've tried teaching her how to do stuff right but i'm now about ready to give up shes just too boring when it comes to ***, doesn't give good head or anything

side note: it could be that i just enjoy one night stands with girls i just met more but i do want this one to work out and besides the *** i have yet to find 1 single thing about her that i don't like but this is really starting to turn the mood on the relationship as i originally expected the *** to be better then with most girls since i liked her more or we and being a very sexual person not saying thats the only thing that matters or anything but its sort of a very key thing thats missing here

so anyone have a similar experience and if so what did you do?

[Luka]

Originally Posted by starplus

so i'm really not the relationship type or atleast haven't been for the past few years as i've been more into just going out and partying as much as possible but i've been seeing this girl for the past couple months and i really like her more then any girl i've met in years but the *** is just bad with her and yes i've tried teaching her how to do stuff right but i'm now about ready to give up shes just too boring when it comes to ***, doesn't give good head or anything

Why should you expect all the pleasure? She shouldn't be expected to give you ''good head'', just because it pleasures you. Ever thought of pleasuring her? And, why not talk to each other to see what really turns both of you on. Remember that it should be satisfying for both of you, not just you.

side note: it could be that i just enjoy one night stands with girls i just met more but i do want this one to work out and besides the *** i have yet to find 1 single thing about her that i don't like but this is really starting to turn the mood on the relationship as i originally expected the *** to be better then with most girls since i liked her more or we and being a very sexual person not saying thats the only thing that matters or anything but its sort of a very key thing thats missing here.

I hope you're using condoms. I'd be surprised if you haven't gotten an STD os something, after all the ''one night stands''. You say you've yet to find one bad thing about this girl; you said the sex was bad. And to me, it sounds as if your life resolves around sex, all the time. Talk to her and be more adventurous. Try foreplay before you poke the fire.

so anyone have a similar experience and if so what did you do?

The above.

[Your Favorite Crush]

Communicate your concern about the crappy s3x to your partner. A lot of people are embarrassed to talk about their s3x life with their own partner, which is silly. Once you get past that issue and are able to discuss what displeases you, maybe things will get better. It would be a terrible shame to ditch someone who seems to make you happy [excluding the x3s issue]. Sometimes 'teaching someone how to do certain things right' may be a turn off for them. Ask outright questions on why she doesn't have the kick. S3x is usually weird for people who haven't been together long, it takes time to let go and get down. Maybe [and I don't mean this in a bad way] she needs you to 'get her going'.

[Rachael]

Originally Posted by starplus

so i'm really not the relationship type or atleast haven't been for the past few years as i've been more into just going out and partying as much as possible but i've been seeing this girl for the past couple months and i really like her more then any girl i've met in years but the *** is just bad with her

How many times has SHE had sex?
It's possible she's only done it a few times. She can't be perfect the first time. I'm sure no one is.

However, if it's not her first time... every guy will like it different.
Just keep telling her what you like. I doubt she'd be offended.
Infact it would probably make her happier you're telling her in the long run...

Originally Posted by starplus

and yes i've tried teaching her how to do stuff right but i'm now about ready to give up shes just too boring when it comes to ***, doesn't give good head or anything

Maybe you're just a rubbish teacher. Haha.
She could be nervous.
Maybe she's not confident with you to do "exciting" things.

Originally Posted by starplus

side note: it could be that i just enjoy one night stands with girls

Ew?
I wouldn't touch boys like you.
At all.
You're lucky she'll even think about it.

[†―†ΤιΜΜΞΉ†—†]

Originally Posted by Your Favorite Crush

Communicate your concern about the crappy s3x to your partner. A lot of people are embarrassed to talk about their s3x life with their own partner, which is silly. Once you get past that issue and are able to discuss what displeases you, maybe things will get better. It would be a terrible shame to ditch someone who seems to make you happy [excluding the x3s issue]. Sometimes 'teaching someone how to do certain things right' may be a turn off for them. Ask outright questions on why she doesn't have the kick. S3x is usually weird for people who haven't been together long, it takes time to let go and get down. Maybe [and I don't mean this in a bad way] she needs you to 'get her going'.

thats right...!!!!

[Fearless™]

maybe the problem isn't her...maybe the problem is you...