Why are you gay?

Dark@ngel · 08-20-2006, 09:24 AM

Has anyone ever asked you this question?
What would the answer be?

Nebacudnezar · 08-20-2006, 09:36 AM

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Originally Posted by Dark@ngel

Has anyone ever asked you this question?

What would the answer be?

This is a very hard question to answer darkangel and to be honest i have no idea as to the reason i am gay,

And i havnt been asked that question as sutch but you see i dont have girl freinds and i use that term loosely so all i ever get askes is WHY HAVNT YOU GOT A GIRL FREIND and every time i get asked it i could kill the person that ask,s it to me !

You think people would go and get them selves a bloody clue hay ime 24 and i have rearly been seen walking any where with a girl,

Umm gee i wonder if ime GAY. !!!

Luka · 08-20-2006, 09:38 AM

Been asked it loads of times, especially by everyone in Gay Chat, well, the haters, anyway.
I don't know the reason why, but I wish I did, so I can forever try and figure out WHY.

Dark@ngel · 08-20-2006, 09:43 AM

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Originally Posted by Luka

Been asked it loads of times, especially by everyone in Gay Chat, well, the haters, anyway.
I don't know the reason why, but I wish I did, so I can forever try and figure out WHY.

Alex This Thread is directed for Real time not the Net ...But Yeah those in chat , especially the haters , really dont Understand...

I believe the answers is with in us , but it can't be put in words .....

Luka · 08-20-2006, 09:46 AM

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Originally Posted by Dark@ngel

Alex This Thread is directed for Real time not the Net ...But Yeah those in chat , especially the haters , really dont Understand...

I believe the answers is with in us , but it can't be put in words .....

I meant both. Sorry I was giving the most frequent times when I've been asked. i.e in the room. I agree about the answer lying within us, but just cant seem to figure out what I like more about men than women; without being graphic anyway. <_<;;

**Cat** · 08-20-2006, 09:48 AM

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Originally Posted by Luka

Been asked it loads of times, especially by everyone in Gay Chat, well, the haters, anyway.
I don't know the reason why, but I wish I did, so I can forever try and figure out WHY.

For a start Luka not everyone who asks why people are gay are haters. If some of you stopped thinking like that, then maybe you wouldn't be so defensive, and actually take the time to explain to those who are curious.

Sure few can say why they're gay, same way nobody can explain why we live, breath and die.

And Nebby, if at 24 you've never been seen even walking along the road with a girl, then I'd say you have a serious problem, because majority of the genuine gay community have no problems socialising with any *** on a platonic basis.

Dark@ngel · 08-20-2006, 09:48 AM

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Originally Posted by Luka

I meant both. Sorry I was giving the most frequent times when I've been asked. i.e in the room. I agree about the answer lying within us, but just cant seem to figure out what I like more about men than women; without being graphic anyway. <_<;;

See @ the end of the day we know we are Gay , but words , can't put an answer on it ....

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I have to agree with Cat on that , Some people are curious on the lifestyle , and others just that are not sure , feel the need to know more....

Nebacudnezar · 08-20-2006, 09:53 AM

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Originally Posted by Dark@ngel

Alex This Thread is directed for Real time not the Net ...But Yeah those in chat , especially the haters , really dont Understand...

I believe the answers is with in us , but it can't be put in words .....

Listen maybe that is the problem serching for answers that do not exsist fact is being gay is different from being strait/normal i think we should just except it and not let it hold us back in life where the word as a crown not a burden.... crown Lol ime a total queen wanna be. !!

Idont no why i remember this or where i heard it but some one said to me that love has nothing to with god or heaven or hell because we have no controll over who we like or dis like or love and hate its all about WHO YOU FANCEY and we have no controll over that beauty is in the eye of the beholder not the barer. !!!

**Cat** · 08-20-2006, 09:53 AM

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Originally Posted by Luka

I meant both. Sorry I was giving the most frequent times when I've been asked. i.e in the room. I agree about the answer lying within us, but just cant seem to figure out what I like more about men than women; without being graphic anyway. <_<;;

Have you ever had a physical relationship with a male Luka?

Luka · 08-20-2006, 09:54 AM

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Originally Posted by ΩcatΩ

For a start Luka not everyone who asks why people are gay are haters. If some of you stopped thinking like that, then maybe you wouldn't be so defensive, and actually take the time to explain to those who are curious.

That's true. Just from experience, people that have asked me both in real time, and in the room, have asked this question, tried my best to answer and they always reply with: ''disgusting person'', ''it's wrong, etc'', the usual crap. But at times, you can't blame people for being defensive about it, but I see your point. And what you said about stopping thinking like that is true, also. I'ma try and explain fully to the next person who asks me that, yet I'll find it hard, because there is no answer as to why we're gay.
Loller, I'd love to know my reason for being gay.

And no, to your question, Cat.