My Girlfriend's Problems.

[King Mickey]

We've been together for quite a while now, but there's been some mishaps and things we've had to take care of. For one, we met on MySpace, her name is Samantha (for those who know her). Right now, I don't know what to do because she has kissed another guy. At first I was not mad and thinking on it now, it makes me angry. I have no clue how come it comes to me now as a burden, but, the problem is she is going through things that I don't know about..

I got some of it out of her, like she says she has some type of disorder. Maybe a teen crisis or something, don't worry about the details on that one, nothing important. But, she has taken me off from her friends and changed her status and etc, on the day this kissed happened. And she won't even speak to me, call me anymore or even comment me. I have to do everything now and it's annoying me. I'm losing hope, and don't know what to do.

Someone help me.. Please..

[†―†ΤιΜΜΞΉ†—†]

Originally Posted by King Mickey

We've been together for quite a while now, but there's been some mishaps and things we've had to take care of. For one, we met on MySpace, her name is Samantha (for those who know her). Right now, I don't know what to do because she has kissed another guy. At first I was not mad and thinking on it now, it makes me angry. I have no clue how come it comes to me now as a burden, but, the problem is she is going through things that I don't know about..

I got some of it out of her, like she says she has some type of disorder. Maybe a teen crisis or something, don't worry about the details on that one, nothing important. But, she has taken me off from her friends and changed her status and etc, on the day this kissed happened. And she won't even speak to me, call me anymore or even comment me. I have to do everything now and it's annoying me. I'm losing hope, and don't know what to do.

Someone help me.. Please..

what i understand now that your finished if she dosent want to talk to you that means she dosent want to be botherd but i suggest wait for awhile and let every thing go back to order but dont worry like they all say theres alot of fish in the sea!!!!!!!!

[King Mickey]

I hope your right man, but anyways, she doesn't even know how much I love her.
I guess, I should give up.

[Candescence.]

Originally Posted by King Mickey

I hope your right man, but anyways, she doesn't even know how much I love her.
I guess, I should give up.

You shouldn't give up if you really love her. Maybe the reason she isn't talking to you is because she feels too guilty to do so.. But I might be able to advise you better if I knew more about the situation.
I take it you're not still together? Have you met each other in real life? How long have you known her? Who's this other offline guy???

[King Mickey]

We are still together, and we have met in real life. this guy that she has kissed is around her, more than I am though. He is her best friend and she says it was just a spur of the moment thing. So she kissed him, but what puzzles me is why continue, if you have someone else you love. It gets me pissed. She is guilty, that's why she doesn't say anything to me, nor talk to me. I ask her, "Do you want to continue with this relationship?" She either says, "I don't know.." Or no answer at all. Pretty sucky, think to say.

[Candescence.]

Originally Posted by King Mickey

We are still together, and we have met in real life. this guy that she has kissed is around her, more than I am though. He is her best friend and she says it was just a spur of the moment thing. So she kissed him, but what puzzles me is why continue, if you have someone else you love. It gets me pissed. She is guilty, that's why she doesn't say anything to me, nor talk to me. I ask her, "Do you want to continue with this relationship?" She either says, "I don't know.." Or no answer at all. Pretty sucky, think to say.

Okai, well she obviously doesn't seem too keen on continuing the relationship with you; hence the "I don't know's" or 'no answers'. The no answers are usually a way of trying to get out of it or avoid the incoming questions.
And I doubt her kiss with this other guy was really a "spur of the moment thing" either, but meh, I wouldn't know, suppose it just depends on how much you trust her..
Has she even apologized to you for kissing this guy?? If so, did she really mean it? I think her reaction/comments would give you some indication on as to whether the kiss was intentional or not..

Usually relationships between "best friends" hardly ever work out - you always end up breaking up, and that strong friendship bond that you once had, is now gone. Lol, take my word for it.

She's confused, about what and who she wants. You're on the net and can't be around her as much. Most woman crave physical contact and attention as this other guy can give; he can be around her more, give her the physical love and attention she needs, and she can see him on more of a regular basis, which for her, is obviously an advantage if she really likes him. But the question is; 'how much does she really care/love you'?? Well of course, that's dependent on if she carries on with the relationship. If she did, she'd stay with you and carry on the relationship, regardless of how far apart you are from each other - you could always meet up more, or even move in together in due time.
But maybe she feels as though internet relationships aren't working out for her?? Maybe she's the kind of girl who prefers guys offline. I honestly don't know...

I can tell by you still being together that you must really love this girl, but don't get your hopes up if you know it's all going to end in tears, it's really not worth it... Just follow your instincts.

I really don't mean to sound so negative, but I'm only saying it how I see it..

Anyway, despite all that, my advice for you, is to talk to her about what she really wants; she sounds really confused, and by that, she could very easily make a mistake that she could end up regretting.
Do NOT pressure her into doing anything she doesn't want to do. Just explain to her that she needs to think about what she REALLY wants.. Give her the time she needs, and whatever decision she makes, you'd respect it...

[†―†ΤιΜΜΞΉ†—†]

Originally Posted by King Mickey

We are still together, and we have met in real life. this guy that she has kissed is around her, more than I am though. He is her best friend and she says it was just a spur of the moment thing. So she kissed him, but what puzzles me is why continue, if you have someone else you love. It gets me pissed. She is guilty, that's why she doesn't say anything to me, nor talk to me. I ask her, "Do you want to continue with this relationship?" She either says, "I don't know.." Or no answer at all. Pretty sucky, think to say.

no m8 never give up!!

[Candescence.]

Originally Posted by †―†ΤιΜΜΞΉ†—†

no m8 never give up!!

...Everyone has to give up at some stage. What if she decides she wants to end the relationship? What's the point in him trying if she's made her final decision? It'll only make it worse for him.

[King Mickey]

Today, or tonight when I call her I'm going to ask her in point blank, "Do you want to carry on this relationship?" If she says no, I move on. Yes, okay we'll meet up more..

Maybe the "I don't know's" mean that she is trying to find out what.

[Candescence.]

Originally Posted by King Mickey

Today, or tonight when I call her I'm going to ask her in point blank, "Do you want to carry on this relationship?" If she says no, I move on. Yes, okay we'll meet up more..

Maybe the "I don't know's" mean that she is trying to find out what.

I'm confused, if she tells you she doesn't want the relationship anymore, you're going to make the effort to see her more? :S