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Old 08-20-2006, 07:13 PM   #1
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Question 'ey how should i ask this perfect friend to go out with me?

read the title...i need some advice
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Old 08-20-2006, 07:18 PM   #2
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Try, "Hey, do you want to go out tonight?".
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Old 08-20-2006, 07:21 PM   #3
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The Phrase describes it self "PERFECT FRIEND" . . Not PERFECT PERSON I WOULD FALL IN LOVE WITH AND HAVE A HAPPY EVER AFTER STORY ENDING. n_n Friends are Friends not Lovers.
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Old 08-20-2006, 10:06 PM   #4
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The Phrase describes it self "PERFECT FRIEND" . . Not PERFECT PERSON I WOULD FALL IN LOVE WITH AND HAVE A HAPPY EVER AFTER STORY ENDING. n_n Friends are Friends not Lovers.

yea...we both like eachother but i need to make the move...so yea...wuteva neway...i need more advice people...not smarta** comments...c'mon...plz
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Old 08-21-2006, 07:47 AM   #5
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Just say "Hi, umm.. I really like you, and I was wondering if you wanted to go out on a date"?? Orrrrr, just ask him/her to be your fg/bf..
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Old 08-23-2006, 06:26 AM   #6
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tell her nice dress can i talk you out of it?
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Old 08-23-2006, 06:54 AM   #7
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tell her nice dress can i talk you out of it?
Only on TV or in the movies does that line work. In real life all that line gets you is a slap.

Try just asking if she wants to go the movies with you on a Friday/Saturday night, don't make it all formal or anything otherwise you will just scare her off. Just see if she'll go the movies and take it from there, don't go all out to impress her though because even if you do impress her you can't keep up a pretence for ever just be yourself and see how things go.
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Old 08-23-2006, 07:00 AM   #8
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just tell her
hey are u busy tonight?
maybe we could go watch a movie?
she what she says and watcha romance and then make ur move thier
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Old 08-23-2006, 03:27 PM   #9
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Write her a note, and stuff it in a cupcake and give it to her. When she eats it, she finds the note, reads it, and then agrees to go out with you. I think that's really romantic. Or if you can't bake, then just buy her some chocolate, and flowers (roses) and just ask her to dinner + movies. Hope everything works out.
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Old 08-25-2006, 08:03 AM   #10
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read the title...i need some advice
Sorry for the late post. The most amazing advice always comes last. Lol, jks babes.

ANYWHO, I think you shouldn't rush into things. Usually bestfriends would make a great couple, but most of the time it's just a nono. -.-

My advice to you my dear is take it slow. You know, don't rush into it -- but just try to calmly & confidentely tell her if you really want to be with her.
"Omgomgomgomg what do I say Lara? "
Well I think you should tell her in a place where it's just you & her or in your favorite restaurant or hers it doesn't really matter. The main objective is not to rush right away with "Wanna go out with me?" You want to tell her first that you like her & stuff. Just create a conversation & let her feel comfortable with you liking her first then just continue on & finally when it's all build up -- then you should ask her "The Question"
"What if I get Rejected?"
So what? You got a rejection it's all good. Just continue being her friend. Though, in your relationship you sort of have a little crack. So, you want to put cement on that by continously building your friendship. Don't change the way you act towards her -- because I think, personally that's a major turn off idk about the other girls but just don't change the way you are with her. Continue being around her & you know just keeping your cool. ACT LIKE YOU HAVEN'T ASKED HER OUT. Continue to make her feel comfortable with you whenever whereever however whatever. xD BUTBUT. I hope you the greatest. Just do what you think is right & do it with confidence. Don't let anything get in the way of you wanting to be with this girl. Even with a rejection, who knows -- maybe in the future. It's - She whispered - You & Her

I know I made you feel all tingly inside. ^_~


Edit: You can do extras if you'd want. But don't overdo it. You're asking her out not asking her to marry you. ;D
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