Need Advice???

[caz111]

Its a long story but ill cut it short,Last christmas i had some texts off a so called girl saying my boyfreind had been seeing a and was going to finish with me.had it out with him said it wasnt true so i believed him,not so long ago i rang this number several times and either my brother or sister in law answered.it makes me angrier everytime i see them.dont know what to do.do i say something and let them know that i know it was them all along or keep quiet and let myself get more and more angry???????

[chantelle]

Hi caz, well its hard to say what you should do for the best. If it was me this was happening to then i would have to say something to them. Just to ask them why they did it, did they know something that i did'nt. . But if you keep this to yourself, like you said when you see them you get angry. If you are going to say something to them, then try and be relaxed about it, try not to shout and scream. I hope you sort things out hunny good luck and i hope everything goes well for you tc

[Bailey]

You shouldn't keep it to yourself, it's unhealthy and you end up feeling terrible. My advice to you is you should look over the relationship and if it makes you happy beyond all extent to be with him, have a nice quiet talk and see where things can go. If you find that the perfect guy is someone else, go crazy on him or just let him down lightly.. This is of course what I would do so it's biased, look into your heart and the answer will be there waving a big 'Hello' banner. Luck be with you hun..

"When sorrows come, they come not single spies but in battalions."

[Candescence.]

Originally Posted by Bailey

You shouldn't keep it to yourself, it's unhealthy and you end up feeling terrible. My advice to you is you should look over the relationship and if it makes you happy beyond all extent to be with him, have a nice quiet talk and see where things can go. If you find that the perfect guy is someone else, go crazy on him or just let him down lightly.. This is of course what I would do so it's biased, look into your heart and the answer will be there waving a big 'Hello' banner. Luck be with you hun..

"When sorrows come, they come not single spies but in battalions."

^ I agree...

[blondy-uk™]

Ok a few things i would do.
1: if i loved the guy and trusted him beyond these allegations : i would : let it go over my head easier said than done obviously but whats more important some idiots trying to hurt you or your relationship

2:If i had doubts and didn't trust him: in all honesty : i would go and confront them not in any "why did u say this" etc i would approach in this sort of way..
'im probably worrying over nothing but i feel i have to say something because its been niggling away at me for some time, i recieved a text saying *your partner is cheating, now maybe this was a prank im quite unsure what to think is there abny way you can clear this up.

QUESTION
From what i can gather this seems to have affected you in a big way, my question is if your partner is aware of this and he's 'innocent' why has the thought of confronting the individuals entered into his head.

anyway hope this helped and good luck