How to intiate ***.

Marlee · 08-26-2006, 12:48 AM

Hi, I am a 26 year old virgin (yes we exist), I am engaged with a man I have been with for three years. He is not a virgin but has abstained since we became a couple, he doesn't pressure me about *** though he did initiate petting in the first few years. As our wedding approaches in late October, he's become less affectionate I worry he has cold feet he says no, that he just agrees we should wait. The issue is I no longer wish to wait I want to ensure that we have chemistry by making love before our wedding date but I don't know how to initiate it. Any suggestions?

Phılıp™ · 08-26-2006, 02:36 AM

Talk to him assure him how committed you are and willing to do it and take easy steps with you because you're a virgin and if he loves you im sure you'll have a great time good luck and have a great wedding!

Candescence. · 09-13-2006, 07:44 PM

LOL @ "yes, we exist"
Wow.. He's gone 3 years without it? Theres not many men like that.. Lol, he must really love you to respect your decision like that.. Just kinda go along with it next time you think it'll happen, or make the 1st move.

And have a great wedding!

sharlene · 09-13-2006, 08:08 PM

w0w! really? youve been going out with him for that long and you havent fuxed

well this makes me think how slagish i am

Glamourr Scene. · 09-13-2006, 08:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Marlee

Hi, I am a 26 year old virgin (yes we exist), I am engaged with a man I have been with for three years. He is not a virgin but has abstained since we became a couple, he doesn't pressure me about *** though he did initiate petting in the first few years. As our wedding approaches in late October, he's become less affectionate I worry he has cold feet he says no, that he just agrees we should wait. The issue is I no longer wish to wait I want to ensure that we have chemistry by making love before our wedding date but I don't know how to initiate it. Any suggestions?

Put on porn.

Zero Xaerus · 09-13-2006, 08:57 PM

o_o; OMG, I don't think I would survive that long.

Gawd, that's must be so hard for you.

Just say "Wanna have sex? I want to loose ol' heimen here"

It's not like he'll turn down or anything.

I'll tell you what, If he declines then he must be gay.

I mean 3 years?

Blindsided. · 09-13-2006, 09:04 PM

"Let's do it." is enough for me.

poisonXheart · 09-14-2006, 08:34 AM

Well, just make sure you really do want to have *** before your wedding and that you're not feeling pressured and that you might lose him. Just talk to him, if you have been together for that long, just sit down and discuss how you feel. Good luck and enjot marriage!

I was a virgin until 21, there is nothing wrong with being a virgin in your 20s

sharlene · 09-14-2006, 01:34 PM

wanna fuck?

seXybitCh23 · 09-14-2006, 01:44 PM

Congrats on the wedding.

Well, generally, most guys won't turn down sex.

Tell him what you're thinking. Always communicate. Thats the key to a great relationship. I'd say to plan something romantic for the first time. Candles etc. Have fun and best of luck.