Confused

Dave_F · 08-26-2006, 08:33 AM

Hi,
Dont know if i'm supposed to put this in here or not so sorry if its in the wrong place.

I have a gf which I love very much, but I just have the urge to experiment with guys. I dont want a relaitionship just some fun with them. I feel bad on my gf but what am I to do - i want both!!

I was looking for a guy whos also curious just for chats n stuff then leading to something more. I have tried to get rid of this but i want to have fun. I know its bad but what shud i do

§ØLÌÐ*§ÇØÛŠÊ · 08-26-2006, 08:37 AM

What's the difference between cheating on your girlfriend with a male compared to cheating on your girlfriend with a female? Would you consider cheating with another female? By all means experiment with guys, but NOT while you are in a relationship.

Dave_F · 08-26-2006, 08:39 AM

i know what u mean - its cheating - But i want her and i want that for some fun!! I know its really bad, but i cant dump her for that when i full well want her!!

§ØLÌÐ*§ÇØÛŠÊ · 08-26-2006, 08:40 AM

Well if you don't want to lose her then you have to suppress your desires, if she found out that you cheated on her she would most probably dump you, if she found out you cheated on her with a guy that is the ultimate betrayal and you are unlikely to speak to her again.

Dave_F · 08-26-2006, 08:43 AM

i know ur right!!! But if i tyy it i may not like it!! But if i told her i wanted to try it that wud be it!!

§ØLÌÐ*§ÇØÛŠÊ · 08-26-2006, 08:45 AM

If you want to keep your girl then you can only think and not do, if eventually you break up then that is the time to experiment, if you never break up that means she is the One and you have no need to experiment.

Dark@ngel · 08-26-2006, 08:57 AM

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Originally Posted by Dave_F

Hi,
Dont know if i'm supposed to put this in here or not so sorry if its in the wrong place.

Yes , You have posted in the right place .... Here or Advice is fine..

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I have a gf which I love very much, but I just have the urge to experiment with guys. I dont want a relaitionship just some fun with them. I feel bad on my gf but what am I to do - i want both!!

You have a G/F and you state you love very much, So if you feel you need to experiment with a guy, But the relationship with girl must end or atleast tell her what is going on ..Tell her about what you are feeling , You need to be honest with Yourself and the way you feel .Most important , Be honest with her she atleast deserves that ..

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I was looking for a guy whos also curious just for chats n stuff then leading to something more. I have tried to get rid of this but i want to have fun. I know its bad but what shud i do

Regardless if it is just for chat, You still need to be honest with her ..It will hurt more if she finds out , by the others..You feel the need to endevour this , be honest ..Dont hurt her ....

Good luck..

Nebacudnezar · 08-26-2006, 09:04 AM

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Originally Posted by Dave_F

Hi,
Dont know if i'm supposed to put this in here or not so sorry if its in the wrong place.

I have a gf which I love very much, but I just have the urge to experiment with guys. I dont want a relaitionship just some fun with them. I feel bad on my gf but what am I to do - i want both!!

I was looking for a guy whos also curious just for chats n stuff then leading to something more. I have tried to get rid of this but i want to have fun. I know its bad but what shud i do

If your thinking about exsperimenting with guys fine but if you actually have shex with men then that would make you homosexual mate sorry but it would i dont think theres any sutch thing as bi se;x with men = gay = homosexual. !!!!

Finish with your girl freind and get your self a boyfreind.

**Cat** · 08-26-2006, 09:33 AM

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Originally Posted by Dave_F

Hi,
Dont know if i'm supposed to put this in here or not so sorry if its in the wrong place.

I have a gf which I love very much, but I just have the urge to experiment with guys. I dont want a relaitionship just some fun with them. I feel bad on my gf but what am I to do - i want both!!

I was looking for a guy whos also curious just for chats n stuff then leading to something more. I have tried to get rid of this but i want to have fun. I know its bad but what shud i do

Either you're bisexual or just perverted. Only you can know.

Dave_F · 08-26-2006, 09:41 AM

Calling me a pervert is a bit harsh!!

I disagree saying im gay, i cant be gay if i like women!! Im bi if anything! She does deserve to know i agree but its just doing it! And to be honest i know i dnt want a bf. I find that side to it quite sick, i know im probably contradicting myself but its just fun i want!