help?? again ..

42606 x aaf · 08-30-2006, 01:51 AM

okay. so im 15; and i have messed up parents. i reallyyy reallyy wanna move out .. my parents are 45. my moms an alcoholic and she bitches about EVERYTHiNGGG. she doesnt have a REAL job. she babysits my cousins twice a week and lives on her husbands pention. my dads not even married, and hes on probabtion for drug possesion. idk if he does drugs .. i have a feeling he does... he doesnt keep a job cuz he always gets "laid off" and he dunno how to save money. he lives with my gma still and shes 70....
now; when i get into ONE MORE BIG ARGUEMENT with my mom; im leaving the house for good. but i dont wanna go to my dads. and i dont wanna go to the schoool by him. [ its a bad school ]

my fiancee is 16 going on 17 and he wants me to move in with him;
what should i do?

Kataklysm · 08-30-2006, 01:53 AM

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Candescence. · 08-30-2006, 06:36 AM

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Originally Posted by 42606 x aaf

okay. so im 15; and i have messed up parents. i reallyyy reallyy wanna move out .. my parents are 45. my moms an alcoholic and she bitches about EVERYTHiNGGG. she doesnt have a REAL job. she babysits my cousins twice a week and lives on her husbands pention. my dads not even married, and hes on probabtion for drug possesion. idk if he does drugs .. i have a feeling he does... he doesnt keep a job cuz he always gets "laid off" and he dunno how to save money. he lives with my gma still and shes 70....
now; when i get into ONE MORE BIG ARGUEMENT with my mom; im leaving the house for good. but i dont wanna go to my dads. and i dont wanna go to the schoool by him. [ its a bad school ]

my fiancee is 16 going on 17 and he wants me to move in with him;
what should i do?

If you're really not happy living with your parents, then try and move out, but your age could cause a problem.
And wow, you have a fiance at 15?? You certainly don't hang about lol.
If you feel comfortable with this guy, then go and stay with him, just make sure you don't ditch your education, because it's essential.

King Mickey · 08-30-2006, 03:33 PM

It's better for you to get a job, so you can spend your time there after school, and provide for yourself. So you won't have to worry about seeing you parents, and you can save up to get your own apartment.
But if you trust the guy, give him his word in it all. Make an intertwining thought, instead of one string, ready to snap.

seXybitCh23 · 08-30-2006, 05:42 PM

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Originally Posted by 42606 x aaf

okay. so im 15; and i have messed up parents. i reallyyy reallyy wanna move out .. my parents are 45. my moms an alcoholic and she bitches about EVERYTHiNGGG. she doesnt have a REAL job. she babysits my cousins twice a week and lives on her husbands pention. my dads not even married, and hes on probabtion for drug possesion. idk if he does drugs .. i have a feeling he does... he doesnt keep a job cuz he always gets "laid off" and he dunno how to save money. he lives with my gma still and shes 70....
now; when i get into ONE MORE BIG ARGUEMENT with my mom; im leaving the house for good. but i dont wanna go to my dads. and i dont wanna go to the schoool by him. [ its a bad school ]

my fiancee is 16 going on 17 and he wants me to move in with him;
what should i do?

First off, you're 15 and you shouldn't be engaged in such an early part of your life. My sister is 19 and is a full time college student at a University. I would kick her ass for being engaged at the age of 19.

It sucks that you're in this kind of situation. My suggestion is to get a piece of paper and write down the pros and cons of living with each parent. Keep in mind that no matter how bad each one of your parents bitch.. they still love you. I understand your situation. Just think.. in 3 years you'll be out on your own

Think about long term goals instead of short term goals.

Bailey · 08-30-2006, 08:49 PM

Ever try telling your parents how unhappy you are? Even though they have certain problems and addictions they're still the ones who made you and hold some kind of bond with you... If you tell them the truth, that means verbalizing your dislike of their habits, then maybe they'll listen... Good luck, I suppose.

"There is nothing wither good or bad, but thinking makes it so."

42606 x aaf · 08-31-2006, 11:51 AM

i cant tell my parents that im not happy. cuz then they'll get all pissed off at me. i cant talk to my mom about anything and my dad he'll just ignore the subject and change it so he can talk about what he wants...

and so what if im engaged at 15? we already have our future planned out. thats the important thing. and hes more than anything i've ever wanted. and he makes me so happy. i was wrong about the other retarted guys i dated; but im for real this time. cuz this is true love. and i love him more than words could ever explain

i want to find a job. and i already applied to one. and im picky about the other ones cuz where the other ones are .. its a bad town.. and theres people that can stalk me or lead to ****. so im not so comfortable working in a town like that..

Bailey · 08-31-2006, 07:54 PM

You're fifteen, how can you truly perceive what love is and grant it it's full worth? No offense intended but really, what young hearts call love finish their run with the name crush or infatuation... I'm not telling you to not marry him or the like, but really, love will end up hurting you more than any other thing... So maybe you can't win by any means... Try anyway! Fear not the looming threat of chaos, but the downtrodden heart of those cast aside by love...

"I kissed thee ere I killed thee. No but this, Killing myself, to die upon a kiss."

42606 x aaf · 09-01-2006, 09:46 AM

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Originally Posted by Bailey

You're fifteen, how can you truly perceive what love is and grant it it's full worth? No offense intended but really, what young hearts call love finish their run with the name crush or infatuation... I'm not telling you to not marry him or the like, but really, love will end up hurting you more than any other thing... So maybe you can't win by any means... Try anyway! Fear not the looming threat of chaos, but the downtrodden heart of those cast aside by love...

"I kissed thee ere I killed thee. No but this, Killing myself, to die upon a kiss."

so?? one of my teachers went out with his wife since he was 15 and hes like 50 now.... i dont appieciate you telling me what love do and what it wont. THIS IS TRUE LOVE... even my friends say so. and their 15, 16, 17 cuz theres no other guy out there like him.... if you saw the things he does/says, THEN you would know.

That Kid with the Hair · 09-02-2006, 07:14 PM

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Originally Posted by 42606 x aaf

so?? one of my teachers went out with his wife since he was 15 and hes like 50 now.... i dont appieciate you telling me what love do and what it wont. THIS IS TRUE LOVE... even my friends say so. and their 15, 16, 17 cuz theres no other guy out there like him.... if you saw the things he does/says, THEN you would know.

You've been going out with him since April. You don't know what love is. STFU.