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Ok, This Is For Tha Fellas, But I Wanna Know What Tha Ladies Think Too....
Old 09-03-2006, 04:39 PM   #1
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say you meet a girl, and on the first night yall kick it, you get head. next night yall kick it, yall have ***. and yall just hang and go out it and "do-the-do" for a few weeks... she wants a relationship, but you're thinkin "relationship?? you sucked my **** on the first night?? you crazy!?" so you are kinda stand offish but still want to keep her around because of her "talents" (lol), and besides that, she seems cool/smart/funny etc......

so after you kinda dodge the relationship question, your homey starts kickin it with her like everyday... she ends up kissin him and doin God knows whatever else, and he comes to you like "yo, i think i'ma holla at her" and wants to turn your "jump-off" to a housewife, and she wants to now be involved in a relationship with the best friend she just had *** with like a week before......

what does that make her, and what does that make him?
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Old 09-03-2006, 05:11 PM   #2
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They're welcome to each other. It sounds as though they just want some fun by sleeping about with whoever...

LOL, and a great way to get STD's.
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Old 09-03-2006, 05:30 PM   #3
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Word.

But does that makes her a weasel or a hoe?
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Old 09-04-2006, 08:52 PM   #4
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I would think.. this would make your best friend desperate.. cuz he has your "left overs". And she would be a h o.. from going from you to your best friend. Although.. women are complicated people. So.. she might be trying to screw you over. She couldn't get what she wanted from you.. so shes gonna go to your best friend... so shes in your life no matter what. See what I mean?
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Have you had the thought..... Maybe if you were "standoffish" at being in a relationship she'd show you sum1 who was actually interested just to show u what your missing? just an idea or maybe she just has no self respect!

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Also if she gave u head n u had sexual contact and afterwards showed thats all you wanted you maybe hurt her feelings a little, maybe she later realized it was sleeping with her on the "1st night " that led you to lack of interest and she thought she would rebell by 'doing the do' as you put it with your friend, i think you need to look at the bigger picture here, she wasn't the only one who performed sexual act's on the 1st night u also did or you at least participated so the question "what does it make her" you can answer yourself, what exactly does it make you!
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Old 09-12-2006, 11:51 PM   #6
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You just want to stay f/uck buddies?

... What I think of this whole 'sleeping around for fun' thing is: you shouldn't do it. Like the others said, you can get STI's and it can hurt peoples feelings, really bad sometimes.. But I suppose everyone has there thing...
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say you meet a girl, and on the first night yall kick it, you get head. next night yall kick it, but you're thinkin "relationship?? you sucked my **** on the first night?? you crazy!?

You Sir, are a moron, I'm sure you were all too willing to oblige you big donkey, what does that make you?
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say you meet a girl, and on the first night yall kick it, you get head. next night yall kick it, yall have ***. and yall just hang and go out it and "do-the-do" for a few weeks... she wants a relationship, but you're thinkin "relationship?? you sucked my **** on the first night?? you crazy!?" so you are kinda stand offish but still want to keep her around because of her "talents" (lol), and besides that, she seems cool/smart/funny etc......

so after you kinda dodge the relationship question, your homey starts kickin it with her like everyday... she ends up kissin him and doin God knows whatever else, and he comes to you like "yo, i think i'ma holla at her" and wants to turn your "jump-off" to a housewife, and she wants to now be involved in a relationship with the best friend she just had *** with like a week before......

what does that make her, and what does that make him?
That makes him a sucker, her a ***** and you.. you take what you can get obviously and have no respect for the female population.
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Old 09-13-2006, 06:16 PM   #9
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Well...

That makes her someone I wanna meet.

And HIM, someone who's stupid to let her go.
And his friend more intelligent.
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Old 09-13-2006, 06:22 PM   #10
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Lol my gosh. That is pretty bad.
What advice did you need exactly?
Cause it pretty much just sounds like your ranting. =/

Well anywho, you've gotta know by now, that a girl will not wait forever.
She has things on her mind, & you have things on yours.
Perhaps she's wanting to settle down with someone. =]
& maybe that's what she was looking for with you.

However, you rejected her cause you wanted someone to have fun with.
And it sounds like she moved on. Maybe you should just let her go.
That is obviously what you wanted in the first place. =D
Exactly since you were the one who pushed her away,
Once she started wanting a relationship with you.
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