Crush on a girl

Rocksingerfan · 09-17-2006, 01:45 PM

I've got a crush on a girl who's in my year at school and there's some obvious signs that she may like me. I don't know what to do. I'm too shy to go up and talk to her. Plus she's really gorgeous.

Rachael · 09-17-2006, 02:32 PM

If you don't tell her, she'll get a boyfriend and you'll be extremely pissed off you didn't ask her sooner.

A no is a no, doesn't get worse than that.
Unless other people find out - but, hey, they lasts a few days then they're making fun of the next person who likes someone else.

Fearless™ · 09-17-2006, 02:47 PM

ask a friend to hook the 2 of you up...just make sure that the friend won't go after the girl himself, cause you don't want that to happen.

good luck!

Candescence. · 09-17-2006, 02:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Rocksingerfan

I've got a crush on a girl who's in my year at school and there's some obvious signs that she may like me. I don't know what to do. I'm too shy to go up and talk to her. Plus she's really gorgeous.

Maybe she's waiting for you to make the 1st move; you are the guy after all.

We all get shy and nervous when it comes to having a crush on somebody - it's perfectly natural, but someone has to make the 1st move and either ask them out, or to just simply go up to them and start talking. But like Racheal said; you should ask her out before someone else does, which will only lead you to extreme anger and regret which could have been avoided if you had just had the confidence. (I know it's easier said than done, lol)

But despite all that, you should get to know her before you ask her out as you may find out that during that time, you could find her personality totally repulsive, and then you'll have to go through the bother of telling her it's over.

Go up and talk to her, ask if she wants to go to the movies (make sure you pay lol), or just out and about, and then possibly try and get her number.

You can take some friends if you don't want to be alone with her, but it may reduce your chances in getting to know her more. =\

After you feel you know her more, take the chance and ask her out. If she says no, it's not the end of the world, just say 'ok' and leave it as that, but at least you've tried. But if you get the feeling she likes you too, I doubt she would say no..

Good luck. o_o;

greenster · 09-17-2006, 04:07 PM

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Originally Posted by *N·i·c·o·l·є*

Maybe she's waiting for you to make the 1st move; you are the guy after all.

We all get shy and nervous when it comes to having a crush on somebody - it's perfectly natural, but someone has to make the 1st move and either ask them out, or to just simply go up to them and start talking. But like Racheal said; you should ask her out before someone else does, which will only lead you to extreme anger and regret which could have been avoided if you had just had the confidence. (I know it's easier said than done, lol)

But despite all that, you should get to know her before you ask her out as you may find out that during that time, you could find her personality totally repulsive, and then you'll have to go through the bother of telling her it's over.

Go up and talk to her, ask if she wants to go to the movies (make sure you pay lol), or just out and about, and then possibly try and get her number.

You can take some friends if you don't want to be alone with her, but it may reduce your chances in getting to know her more. =\

After you feel you know her more, take the chance and ask her out. If she says no, it's not the end of the world, just say 'ok' and leave it as that, but at least you've tried. But if you get the feeling she likes you too, I doubt she would say no..

Good luck. o_o;

Nicole gives long ass advice lol o_o at least they're good

and yeah you should get to know her better first. Cuz maybe if she didn't like you in the first place, she'll like you when she's friends with you and your great personality.
Other than that.. good luck lol

Candescence. · 09-17-2006, 04:43 PM

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Originally Posted by greenster

Nicole gives long ass advice lol o_o at least they're good

and yeah you should get to know her better first. Cuz maybe if she didn't like you in the first place, she'll like you when she's friends with you and your great personality.
Other than that.. good luck lol

It's unintentional. I just start writing and go on and on.
That's not 'long' anyway.

Stoner Princess · 09-17-2006, 04:49 PM

Your best bet would be to just come out with it and tell her. Even if she says no, at least you'll know what her feelings for you are.

jose1134 · 09-17-2006, 06:21 PM

go talk to her u r not! gonna lose anything.......
if she says yea good but if she says no ... she wasnt ur girl before so u can live with out her .......right?

ĔMØ βØI · 09-17-2006, 06:52 PM

First of all, watch Ned's Declassified. Lol jk. ^^;; Anyways, if she is out your league then don't try. Trust me. If you think you got a chance just write her a love note or ask your friend or her friend to ask her. If you don't think she knows you, then oh well get to know her. I'm quite shy myself. You got to do what you got to do though. Good Luck.

-- Emo --

Rocksingerfan · 09-18-2006, 08:34 AM

When I see her and she walks past me I say hello to her and she says hello back but once she got pissed off with me for not saying hello to her and didn't talk to me for 3 days after that she started saying hello to me. Whenever I try to pretend that she's not there she tries to get me to notice her and when I finally notice her she smiles at me and I smile back. Plus we have eye contact but sometimes I shy away and sometimes she shys away and a few of her friends have told me that she likes me. Plus she's started to take an interest in my favourite rock group and on msn she once asked me if I had a six pack.