i need an advice...is about this girl in school

[jose1134]

there is a girl in school that im friends with we met in my_space over the summer and now she goes to my school and she broke up with her boyfriend one of my friends.. in the computer we talk for a long time and in school 2
but since she broke up with her bf she doesnt talk to me as much
and 3 days ago her best friend told me if i liked her and i said yea idk if she told her about it and thats why she doesnt talk to me as much but idk what to do to get closer to her like bf and gf any tips?

[Opinionated Lady]

The best way to find out the truth about anything is to get it yourself. Just go up to her and ask her one day if she likes you. Most likely the reason she doesn't want to talk to you is because she doesn't want to come between you and your friend. If a girl is more important than a friend, just ask her if she wants to go out with you. If it makes you feel better ask your friend if it's ok first. If all fails, you're young. There will be plenty of other girls that will interest you-believe me!

[Candescence.]

Girls can be odd when it comes to situations like this, I'll admit. Lol..
You said she doesn't talk to you as much since her and her bf broke up, but at the same time you're worried incase this other guy has told her that you like her - which also gives you the idea that she's avoiding you due to that..

So let's go through some of the possible reasons she's avoiding you..
- Maybe your friend HAS told her that you like her, if she isn't ready for another relationship, or isn't even sure if she likes you, her natural reaction will be to back away - therefore avoiding you and avoiding communication between you both as she's afraid you'll push her into something she doesn't want to do.
- Maybe she just feels weird talking to you knowing that you like her.
- She could like you too, which would most probally result in her being shy and not knowing what to say - therefore backing away.
- Or despite everything else, he probally hasn't told her.. Maybe her reasons for avoiding you or not feeling the need to communicate are beyond you and has nothing to do with you..

You won't know unless you ask your friend for a honest answer, then based to that, you'll find it easier to work her out. But tell your friend to be honest, and you won't be mad no matter what he states.
Don't pressure her into doing anything she doesn't want to do. If she likes you back, she'll give you signs or find a way to let you know.
If you want another excuse to talk to her, you could go up to her and ask on the off chance if she wants to talk about her ex bf as she seems down about it... and if she says yes, don't judge anything she says, just give her advice and listen to her.
That'll give her the impression that you care about her and could quite possibly bring you closer together.
Good luck.

[jose1134]

Originally Posted by *N·i·c·o·l·є*

Girls can be odd when it comes to situations like this, I'll admit. Lol..
You said she doesn't talk to you as much since her and her bf broke up, but at the same time you're worried incase this other guy has told her that you like her - which also gives you the idea that she's avoiding you due to that..

So let's go through some of the possible reason she's avoiding you..
- Maybe your friend HAS told her that you like her, if she isn't ready for antoher relatinship, or isn't even sure if she likes you, her natural reaction will be to back away - therefore avoiding you and avoiding communication between you both as she's afraid you'll push her into something she doesn't want to do.
- Maybe she just feels weird talking to you knowing that you like her.
- She could like you too, which would most probally result in her being shy and not knowing what to say - therefore backing away.
- Or despite everything else, he probally hasn't told her.. Maybe her reasons for avoiding you or not feeling the need to communicate are beyond you and has nothing to do with you..

You won't know unless you ask your friend for a honest answer, then based to that, you'll find it easier to work her out. But tell your friend to be honest, and you won't be mad no matter what he states.
Don't pressure her into doing anything she doesn't want to do. If she likes you back, she'll give you signs or find a way to let you know.
If you want another excuse to talk to her, you could go up to her and ask on the off chance if she wants to talk about her ex bf as she seems down about it... and if she says yes, don't judge anything she says, just give her advice and listen to her.
That'll give her the impression that you care about her and could quite possibly bring you closer together.
Good luck.

that really helps thank you

[Candescence.]

Originally Posted by jose1134

that really helps thank you

You're most welcome. I'm glad I could help.