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Opinionated Lady · 09-23-2006, 12:45 AM

I myself don't really consider myself a gaybasher. I feel everyone has the right to be what they choose as long as it doesn't physically harm others or is intended to intentionally harm others. I think being gay is definately not for me and don't appreciate when one comes on to me when they know I'm straight and repeatedly and aggressively approach me because even though I respect their sexuality, I feel they should respect mine especially when they know hederosexuality is morally right in the eyes of God. I am not a closet homosexual and have struggled to have friendships with some gay people because I think they are sometimes to open with their display of sexuality which is my mind is very wrong in front of impressionable children-in the bible man is supposed to be with woman in order to reproduce which is our main purpose for having ***. I feel they should be introduced to hederosexuality and not homosexuality and homosexuals should have the same regard towards hederosexuals in that neither should try to force their sexuality on either if confirmed as one or the other. Am I considered a gay basher for choosing not to hang out with lesbians - not that I don't respect them or would not speak to them as they are still people but what's the point? It's just the same as me choosing not to hang with people who do or sell drugs because I don't. You are the company you keep and as a single woman, I don't think guys could automatically distinguish me between a lesbian when hanging out with women who are clearly lesbian. Not being obnoxious or arrogant but a lot of lesbians seem to be attracted to me and I am not comfortable with them staring at me just as I am not comfortable with a man staring at me in a sexual manner.

Kataklysm · 09-23-2006, 12:56 AM

Yes...clearly....Ellen DeGeneres is going to take over the world with her penis hating dyke attitude and 3rd rate comedy.

Luka · 09-23-2006, 06:32 AM

Idiotic question from an idiotic arsehole.

**PhillyStorm** · 09-23-2006, 01:14 PM

Gay marriages in my opinion are like any other marriages. It is a joinment of two individuals who love each other and share the same views and metal thoughts like any other straight couple. It is sad that gays are not treated the same as straights when all we are, are people who like the same se.x. We are still human, with human affections and human thoughts. We are no different and we shoudl have the same marriage right as the rest.

EDIT: That was quoting what sponge said

Edit #2 This is for the bobo who made this thread. Im so annoyed at the post you made that I will not even comment. It is simply the most idiotic thing I have yet to see in these forums.

Kyan · 09-23-2006, 01:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Opinionated Lady

don't appreciate when one comes on to me when they know I'm straight and repeatedly and aggressively approach me because even though I respect their sexuality

I donno exactly what you mean by 'they'....
Probably some people you know. Here's the light for you: just because a few individuals of a group act a certain way doesn't mean all act that way. Just like not all gay guys are feminine or whimpy. Most are masuline and feminine and some are even full masculine.

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I am not a closet homosexual and have struggled to have friendships with some gay people because I think they are sometimes to open with their display of sexuality which is my mind is very wrong in front of impressionable children-in the bible man is supposed to be with woman in order to reproduce which is our main purpose for having ***.

...o_O You say gays sometimes are too open with their display of sexuality?? Straight people are a thoooouuusand times more. On TV everywhere you see it, in the streets, in books, movies, plays, cartoooons. I understand that heterosexuality is the dominate sexuality but other sexuality still have to cope with it.

And what kids see won't affect what they think. Most likely they will see FAR more heterosexuality than homosexuality. They'll get the picture and they won't go gay or anything...don't worry..(unless they were gay to begin with).

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Am I considered a gay basher for choosing not to hang out with lesbians - not that I don't respect them or would not speak to them as they are still people but what's the point? It's just the same as me choosing not to hang with people who do or sell drugs because I don't.

Once again...just because a few individuals acted a certain way doesn't mean all will. If you don't want to hang out with lesbians fine. I'm a gay guy and I hang out with girls. Once in a while one will like me...(or harass me

....haha not literally, I mean flirt) but I get don't all grossed out. I get flattered that someone likes me...even if I'm not going to be attacted back.

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You are the company you keep and as a single woman, I don't think guys could automatically distinguish me between a lesbian when hanging out with women who are clearly lesbian.

Only the stupid ones.

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Not being obnoxious or arrogant but a lot of lesbians seem to be attracted to me and I am not comfortable with them staring at me just as I am not comfortable with a man staring at me in a sexual manner.

Well....I'd be flattered. However, if you're uncomfortable then....tell them? If they don't stop....report their ass..?

Opinionated Lady · 09-23-2006, 01:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Luka

Idiotic question from an idiotic arsehole.

It was just a question which the last time I checked I was free to ask unless was meant to intentionally offend someone. So my reply to you is if you are so offended and feel you need to lash out at me -- maybe you need to go back into the closet if you are not ready to face such a general inquiry.

Luka · 09-23-2006, 01:41 PM

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So my reply to you is if you are so offended and feel you need to lash out at me

I'm not offended, I'm gay and out.
I ssaid that because you contradicted yourself. You said you're not a gay basher and that basically, everyone is free and has the right to what they choose blah blah blah. You say that, after you say you're not a basher. Totally contradicting your point on this thread.

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maybe you need to go back into the closet if you are not ready to face such a general inquiry.

Don't need to go back in the closet. I have a boyfriend who has happened to reply to this thread, basically agreeing with what I said: ididotic.

Execution · 09-23-2006, 01:45 PM

I voted all of the above.

Just because you can't make the poll options correctly.

Opinionated Lady · 09-23-2006, 01:46 PM

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Originally Posted by PhillyStorm

Gay marriages in my opinion are like any other marriages. It is a joinment of two individuals who love each other and share the same views and metal thoughts like any other straight couple. It is sad that gays are not treated the same as straights when all we are, are people who like the same se.x. We are still human, with human affections and human thoughts. We are no different and we shoudl have the same marriage right as the rest.

EDIT: That was quoting what sponge said

Edit #2 This is for the bobo who made this thread. Im so annoyed at the post you made that I will not even comment. It is simply the most idiotic thing I have yet to see in these forums.

I seriously don't mean to offend you if you are gay. However, this is just an open discussion not to be taken to the point of banning gay people. It's just a question. I have heard that some people feel they were born that way. Be it so, it's not really much they can do about it. I feel that homosexuals where I am from are becoming very dominant, very. I feel it is because of their aggressive attitudes and the fact that alot of people feel forced to accept their lifestyles which is okay but to try to force it on others is not which we know does happen and unfortunately some people with bad luck in hederosexual relationships are persuades to go that way when they are not --a time of weakness. What I see where I am from is gay people are happier and unhappy straight people turning that way and I was curious as if anyone else sees the same or if I am overlooking some aspect of the situation being a strict hederosexual--simply healthy, harmless discussion, okay Bobo!

-- Their aggressive attitude portrays a light of confidence which everyone seeks. But it is misleading to see a gay person pretend they care not what others think.

Luka · 09-23-2006, 01:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Opinionated Lady

I seriously don't mean to offend you if you are gay. However, this is just an open discussion not to be taken to the point of banning gay people. I have heard that some people feel they were born that way. Be it so, it's not really much they can do about it. I feel that homosexuals where I am from are becoming very dominant, very. I feel it is because of their aggressive attitudes and the fact that alot of people feel forced to accept their lifestyles which is okay but to try to force it on others is not which we know does happen and unfortunately some people with bad luck in hederosexual relationships are persuades to go that way when they are not --a time of weakness. What I see where I am from is gay people are happier and unhappy straight people turning that way and I was curious as if anyone else sees the same or if I am overlooking some aspect of the situation being a strict hederosexual--simply healthy, harmless discussion, okay Bobo!

Most are, they are themselves, and most are proud of themselves for accepting they're gay and don't stand for any sh!t about their sexuality.

Can you understand why some gay people are aggressive? I can, because of their lifestyle, their childhood, struggles/problems etc, fear. And it doesn't help with all these ''normal'' people abusing them with derogative terms such as fags and queers. At the end of the day, who fucking cares about anyone else anyway, these days? No-one does, and it's straight people that are sometimes inquisitive of the gay lifestlyle, that they resort to coming into gay chatrooms and abusing gays.

So you blame gays for ''making'' 'unhappy straight people' turn gay?
No-ones decision for anyone to be gay, neither is it the gay persons choice.