Whippings

Opinionated Lady · 09-23-2006, 03:55 PM

I can't say that I believe in physial punishment because I reacted negatively towards it due to the fact that I felt it was unnecessary, but I can't say that time out really works for all kids seeing that they now calculate the time it takes to pay for their actions and before let off have already thought of new ways to get into mischief. So what then is the answer to effective punishment? Shouldn't our parents try to at least have a discussion about what we did that they felt was unacceptable before resulting to whippings?

sharlene · 09-23-2006, 05:40 PM

nor do i believe in physical punishment. the state frowns upon it. i think a more effective means of punishment for a naughty child would be toremove all "treats" from the child

poison arrow · 09-24-2006, 04:16 AM

Im glad my dad beat me when i did something wrong, cos it toughened me up, and made me more independant. And if i ever have kids i'll kick their asses too if they misbehave.

Luka · 10-06-2006, 05:17 AM

The title of this thread sounded kinky until I read the first post.
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poison arrow · 10-06-2006, 08:56 AM

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Originally Posted by Xx CRaZeee xX

Uh, dude... That's kind of proof that the abuse of physical punishment [previously] in gaining 'power' over individual's that your father believed is not affecting you into thinking it's the acceptable way. =/

that does'nt make sense

Gianna.__xo · 10-06-2006, 09:00 AM

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Originally Posted by Luka

The title of this thread sounded kinky until I read the first post.

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i second that. (Y)

Melannie · 10-06-2006, 09:04 AM

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Originally Posted by poison arrow

that does'nt make sense

no, it does.

you're just too stupid to understand.

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§ØLÌÐ*§ÇØÛŠÊ · 10-06-2006, 09:06 AM

I third that - made even more so by Gianna posting in it.

Well I suppose I best answer on topic now I'm here well I feel that physical punishment for a child is acceptable to a point, just telling children not to do something doesn't always work, but it should be a last resort and there shouldn't be a weapon used nor should it be hard enough to leave a lasting mark.

poison arrow · 10-06-2006, 09:06 AM

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Originally Posted by Melannie

no, it does.

you're just too stupid to understand.

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u tell me wat he's tryin to say then smartass. . . . . . . im waiting

Physical punishment worked on me, thats y I think it's acceptable, thats y i said i'd kick my kids asses too if they misbehaved.
Unless u had a real fragile kid, but then fragiles kids are'nt really naughty any way.

**Mariah** · 10-06-2006, 02:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Opinionated Lady

Shouldn't our parents try to at least have a discussion about what we did that they felt was unacceptable before resulting to whippings?

Yes, they should. Or at least I think they should.
Why should they be allowed to inflict physical pain...
They wouldn't like it if you resorted to it.

I believe in a "Hands Off Policy."

Everyone keeps their hands to theirselves.

If you ask Me...
I think Parents hit out of their own frustrations.
Maybe they should remember what it was like growing up.
Then they wouldn't be so uptight with their children.